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  • 07-06-2009 3:23pm
    #1
    GavDeMav
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭


    Whats cracking guys and gals. Just dropping by coz I want a bit of reassurance maybe? A couple of people have been calling me gay behind my back and to my face I might add. Its starting me to doubt my own sexuality. I have had many girlfriends both longterm and shortterm.Im in my early 20's. I would consider myself a good looking guy and have no sexual tendancies towards men, HOWEVER I am able to see if a guy is good looking and how a woman would find him attractive by either personality or body, face etc? Does that make me bi or gay or whats the story? I dont think it does personally. Just looking for peoples opinion? Thats what has me doubting myself. When I masterbate etc its always about women. So if someone could shed some light I what they think? Much appreciated


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  • #2
    Boston
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Sounds like these people are very child like. No one can dictate to you what your sexuality is.


  • #3
    !!!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 329 ✭✭!!!


    Don't worry you sound straight to me, haha.
    I'm a gay guy and I can tell if a girl is attractive or not obviously, doesn't mean I'm bisexual or straight.
    And as for the people calling you gay behind your back - that has nothing to do with your sexuality, :pac:.
    :)


  • #4
    Jafin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 776 ✭✭✭Jafin


    These days the term gay is thrown around without people even paying attention, using it as an insult, even for inanimate objects, which makes no sense, so I wouldnt take any notice of 'em. I think most straight men usually take notice if another man is atractive, and straight women notice if women are attractive too for that matter.

    Bottom line, dont worry about it, you can tell if men are attractive but you dont have any sexual urges for them, so I'd say your straight. But even if you were gay or bi, theres no shame in it. Just ignore what they say.
    :D


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