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  • 07-06-2009 12:34am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok, I'll try and keep this short. About a year ago I met this guy on a night out. We live about 3 hours from each other but we stayed in contact ( the odd text or facebook message). Then about 3 months ago we met up again. Since then we've stayed in touch, texting or talking nearly every day. We met up a few more times but its a little difficult with the distance. However we've started to make more of an effort. We have a laugh together and end up kissing and fooling around. But the thing is I'm not sure whats going on between us or how he feels. We haven't talked about it at all and I'm not sure how to bring up the topic. I'm not the most assertive person and also I'm thinking is it a little soon to talk about how we feel, seeing as we've only met up about 5 times altogether?

    Any and all advice much appreciated!


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  • #2
    I_am_Jebus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 458 ✭✭I_am_Jebus


    I dont really think its too early to talk about some direction in your friendship/potential relationship.

    Long distance relationships are frought with difficulties but thats not to say they can't/won't work. They need effort from both parties. But in your situation I think you need to know wher you both stand. Talking to each other every day for 3+ months should give you the grounds to discuss such issues, don;t be afraid to initiate this topic of conversation.


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