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Does he think I don't like him anymore?

  • 31-05-2009 11:15am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey there, please keep anon, my friends lurk this forum, thanks.

    I'll start with backround info, there was this guy in my class at uni who used to stare alot, fast forward a few months, we chatted one day, the next day he asks for my number. we were meant to volunteer together i texted him, he didnt reply..i texted him again..didnt reply..he had previously told me his phone was a bit tempermental.

    Feeling rejected, i avoided him and we didnt speak for a few months again. he adds me on facebook, it informs me he is in a relationship, i pull back again not to get hurt, fast forward, last night of the year, dancing really close together, comes up to me all the night to dance, im confused, cause he has a girlfriend and wondering why is he flirty??

    get talking on facebook chat, i ask him where is the best place to go out, he talks about hard to find anyone, i was like sure why do you care you have a girlfriend..then informs me he broke up...

    cut the conversation short just told him to talk to me if he wants to chat about anything, then next few nights after on facebook chat again he tells me he has to go to a social function, i tell him how best to find the girls...and he totally cuts the conversation just goes offline with the chat and doesn't say goodbye....


    Sorry for the length, just really confused, now he is lovely guy, but i dont know whether he fancies me? like i was only saying that how to get girls cause i thought he didnt fancy me and only seen me as a mate....he seems to be flirty with everyone by nature, i thought. Does he think i totally dont like him now and do you think he sees me as a horrible person....

    should i text him later and wish he a good time tommorrow at his social event..i really don't set out to hurt anyone.

    thanks for any advice.


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  • #2
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    Why would he think you're a horrible person? I really doubt he thinks that but from your post it doesn't sound like he's chasing after you either.

    I don't see any harm in texting him but if he doesn't reply this time then take it he's not interested.


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