Relationship winding down

LegacyUser

My relationship with the bf is starting to wind down, I've all but made the decision to break up. We've gone out 6 months, I've had some doubts all along but its come to the stage where I've given it a chance but its just not right.

I now look upon sex as the best part of what we have and before we started going out it was never something I saw as that important. I don't really have any feelings for him but he claims to really love me.


My question is should I just end it or should I suggest having a more casual (ie. fcuk buddy) style arrangement? I appreciate that'd probably be unlikely to work given his feelings for me.

turgon

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I appreciate that'd probably be unlikely to work given his feelings for me.

You said it.

Just break up fully, if only for his sake.

LegacyUser

I think, for his sake and your own, that if you are feeling this way and it hasn't been a sudden decision, you should call it a day. My ex and I were having simultaneous doubts for a while before he called it a day and I feel like I wasted so much time just hanging in there. You should sit him down and tell him how you feel.
Also the fcuk buddy thing, it doesn't work if one or both of you still has feelings. It's not just casual sex if you still love the person. So it's not really fair to him either.

Marshy

As a friend of mine says, if the sex is good they're a keeper...