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Break up or not?

  • 24-05-2009 2:00pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey,

    I've been with this girl for over a year. we're both 20. however in the last month we have been fighting over silly things and we have gotten on each others nerves. I tried getting through it, thinking it was a rough patch. She is just so emotional the whole time. either really angry at me or really happy. atm she is stressed from college exams. so i get the an earful over the slightest thing. so I am giving her the benefit of the doubt until they are over before deciding to break up with her or not. the thing is too, she told me she used to be depressed when she was a teenager. I'm afraid a break up would push her back to that place she worked so hard to get out of. i would hate that to happen. I love her and wish things were like the start of the relationship. We can usually talk about things but I feel we are going in circles a lot and getting no where.
    We also have alot of freinds in common, who neither of us would want to lose. If we broke up i would easily be her friend. i just think things are too complicated cos we are going out together. sorry for the lack of structure.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I understand that you'd like things to be the way they were but I reckon that you should give it a couple of weeks until after her exams, could be the reason you're both arguing. You say you love her so a few more weeks can't hurt.
    In saying this, whether you break up with her or not, you are not responsible for her depression, if she's prone to these feelings then that has nothing to do with you, you have to do what you have to do. Regarding friends, we all have to go through this at some stage and they should understand and be supportive (you can't stay together to keep your mates happy).


  • #3
    Koushki
    Closed Accounts Posts: 267 ✭✭Koushki


    Maybe wait until after the exams and see what it's like then.
    if you don't see a future or you two being happy together because of fighting and things going round in circles there's no point in being together.


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