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Ex-gf issues

  • 24-05-2009 12:47am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This is my 1st post so i hope someone will be able to help me with some advice.

    My ex-gf of a yr & a half abruptly ended our relationship at the start of the yr. She's avoided contact with me (phone, email, social network etc) for the last 5 months but now a mutual friend of ours says she wants to talk. I felt gutted that she's avoided me for the last while but what should i do??

    some background info - as mentioned we were together for a yr & a half. it was long distance. I'm from Dublin and she's from Derry but we saw each other practically every weekend during our time together. Her reason for breaking up was very vague... We're both 26 with her being slightly older.

    Thanks in advance


Comments

  • #2
    Nervous Wreck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    I'd tread very very carefully tbh. Really think about this. If it was as abrupt as you say, there was a very well defined reason in her head; a well defined reason that was prominent for 5 months of refusal to even be in contact. Suddenly that reason is obsolete? Sounds quite dodgy. If you're considering talking to clear things up in your head, I urge that you do so very tentatively, through phone-calls or, even better, e-mail. I'd usually avoid that advice at all costs but the whole thing sounds sketch to me and I think it'd be better for you to not open yourself up too much at this point. Cos it just reeks of the 'come crawling back' buzz that happens so typically a few months after a break-up. Protect your heart, first and foremost.


  • #3
    Kold
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    Talk to her. Why not? Just be ready to say "**** you" and walk out if it was all some reasonless bullsh*t.


  • #4
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Kold wrote: »
    Talk to her. Why not? Just be ready to say "**** you" and walk out if it was all some reasonless bullsh*t.
    I can see the reason being complete bollocks myself. something like "i had to find myself". Not those words exactly but the same kind of tripe that's often used before she asks if she can be friends so get that "**** off" ready OP.

    Unless someone in her family died or something.


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