Should I.....Shouldn't i

LegacyUser

Hi
Really need peoples opion....broke up with this guy I was seeing there about 3/4 weeks ago...well he did actually in a not so nice way, but when we were going out he was really good to me done loads of nice things together always treated me nice....except that is until it came to the breakup....over txt msg.....hurt at the time but totally over it now...kind of! There is a big thing coming up for him now in a couple of days that I know he will know i will remember the date of and I dont know should I send a txt saying good luck, or will I just be a loser for doing so.....please help its comsuming me!!!!! thanx

Kirnsy

Unregistered wrote: »

Hi
Really need peoples opion....broke up with this guy I was seeing there about 3/4 weeks ago...well he did actually in a not so nice way, but when we were going out he was really good to me done loads of nice things together always treated me nice....except that is until it came to the breakup....over txt msg.....hurt at the time but totally over it now...kind of! There is a big thing coming up for him now in a couple of days that I know he will know i will remember the date of and I dont know should I send a txt saying good luck, or will I just be a loser for doing so.....please help its comsuming me!!!!! thanx

if you aren't fully over him then i wouldn't. it opens the door to you feeling hurt if he doesn't write back etc.he's your ex. he broke up with you by text...why should you give him the pleaure of getting one from you?

Sephiroth_dude

Dont bother your arse,if he did'nt have the decency (sp?) to break up with you face to face,why should you wish him luck?

abbey2000

the guy broke up with you by txt... and your worrying that he might think that YOU are the loser? Never txt him again.

LegacyUser

Thanks for the responses....just needed a bit of a kick into reality- I can be such a softie about stupid things but I know you are all 100% right thanks again. I wont be txtin him, I havent since so why start now! thanx

tolteq

Unregistered wrote: »

Hi
Really need peoples opion....broke up with this guy I was seeing there about 3/4 weeks ago...well he did actually in a not so nice way, but when we were going out he was really good to me done loads of nice things together always treated me nice....except that is until it came to the breakup....over txt msg.....hurt at the time but totally over it now...kind of! There is a big thing coming up for him now in a couple of days that I know he will know i will remember the date of and I dont know should I send a txt saying good luck, or will I just be a loser for doing so.....please help its comsuming me!!!!! thanx

no. forget him. dont bother. how bout trying to text somebody new!

trilo

Don't text. We can be so silly at times and be nice to people when they haven't been really nice to us. Leave him off.