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Confused!!

  • 21-05-2009 5:58pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This is one for the fellas..
    We women have always been lead to believe that men are fools when it comes to sex and they will do anything to get it (I know I am generalising here but I do have a point!)
    my problem is that I have become 'involved' with someone who seems to be able to distance himself from me for weeks on end even though we have a very strong attraction when we are together! I dont know if he is seeing other people. I'm very frustrated with this. Men - Can you distance yourself from someone when you know the sex is great?
    Confused.
    Thanks!


Comments

  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Direct your question to the man you are seeing.
    Everyone is different and no matter what anyone says, you are still not going to get any closer to the answer.


  • #3
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Can you distance yourself from someone when you know the sex is great?
    In the case of people who are fck buddies, I'm sure that's how they work it out.
    Beruthiel wrote: »
    Direct your question to the man you are seeing.

    +1, only he can answer what you want to know


  • #4
    Splendour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Splendour


    Unregistered wrote: »
    This is one for the fellas..
    We women have always been lead to believe that men are fools when it comes to sex and they will do anything to get it (I know I am generalising here but I do have a point!)
    my problem is that I have become 'involved' with someone who seems to be able to distance himself from me for weeks on end even though we have a very strong attraction when we are together! I dont know if he is seeing other people. I'm very frustrated with this. Men - Can you distance yourself from someone when you know the sex is great?
    Confused.
    Thanks!



    Well if he's distancing himself then the obvious answer is 'yes'.


  • #5
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Yeah, just sounds like a fcukbuddy situation to me. You need to decide if you're happy with that!


  • #6
    Tuesday_Girl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 389 ✭✭Tuesday_Girl


    shellyboo wrote: »
    Yeah, just sounds like a fcukbuddy situation to me. You need to decide if you're happy with that!

    Yeah, or else he's with other people in those weeks and getting his needs met there. EIther way, he's not committed to you.


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  • #7
    RossFixxxed
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭RossFixxxed


    Yes every man is EXACTLY the same in every way. Therefore any man's answer is the answer to this guys situation. He is going back to the mothership those days to report on Earth women. Like we all do.

    Go talk to the guy. I coulndn't shoot someone over a car, but many can!

    R


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