Need advice quick

LegacyUser

I have been kissing a good friend of mine for the past 6 weeks..He was the one that started it, I didn't have much intrest at the start but have found i now really like him. After we had kissed a few times he told me he wasnt the relationship type and i said fair enough lets keep it causal.

The weekend before last he rang me on the fri nite to collect him so i did and i stayed at his fri, sat and sun nite. Then last weekend i was out with the girls and he asked me back to his house after so i went back, the following day we went drinkin and were both quite drunk but he tells me he thinks we are in trouble and he is falling in love with me and thinks we should go on a date this week..I stayed in his house that nite and texted him on the monday he rang me back but i missed the call and i tried to ring him back twice but no ans.

Hadnt heard anything from him by 8 last nite so i rang him for chat he never mentioned our date so i texted him 2 hours later and basically said i take it we arent meeting up this week so do me a favour and stop talking **** wen u are drunk if you want to keep it casual fair enough but stop da messing and i havent heard a word from him since. I forgort to mention i did kiss amother guy da weekend before last but i told him about it last sun and sure we arent going out, what should i do?

shellyboo

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I have been kissing a good friend of mine for the past 6 weeks..He was the one that started it, I didn't have much intrest at the start but have found i now really like him. After we had kissed a few times he told me he wasnt the relationship type and i said fair enough lets keep it causal.

The weekend before last he rang me on the fri nite to collect him so i did and i stayed at his fri, sat and sun nite. Then last weekend i was out with the girls and he asked me back to his house after so i went back, the following day we went drinkin and were both quite drunk but he tells me he thinks we are in trouble and he is falling in love with me and thinks we should go on a date this week..I stayed in his house that nite and texted him on the monday he rang me back but i missed the call and i tried to ring him back twice but no ans.

Hadnt heard anything from him by 8 last nite so i rang him for chat he never mentioned our date so i texted him 2 hours later and basically said i take it we arent meeting up this week so do me a favour and stop talking **** wen u are drunk if you want to keep it casual fair enough but stop da messing and i havent heard a word from him since. I forgort to mention i did kiss amother guy da weekend before last but i told him about it last sun and sure we arent going out, what should i do?

Er... yesterday being Tuesday, right? And he called you on Monday? Bit of an overreaction. I'd have said things were ticking along nicely until you started abusing him.

What advice exactly are you looking for?

AngryBadger

What the hell OP?

MASSIVE over-reaction on your part. How old are you exactly?

labradoodlelady

+ 1 Shellyboo!!

Chill the beans girl.
From what you've said he said it Sunday, you rang him Monday no ans and then you rang him last night.

Maybe he is starting to like you or maybe he just said it when he was drunk. The text was probably a bit much. Just don't so anything and leave it to see if he'll get in touch or not.

Oh slightly off topic but seriously just ring him once - if its on a mobile he can see the call and ring back. You mighta freaked him out a bit.

He'll probably ring at the weekend or something.

RossFixxxed

Wow, are you 10 years old? Calm down Jesus, I'd say he's cringing with embarrasment after admitting that being slaughtered by you.

I'd be waving gooodbyeee if I was him. Grow up.

LegacyUser

MAJOR OVERREACTION. Talk about freaking him out.

Why would you not ask him on the phone call if you were going to have a date instead of 2 hours after the phone call?

Wait a while - stop expecting answers straight away. Even the title of your post suggests you cannot wait for things to progress naturally.

LegacyUser

op here..the only reason i texted him that last nite was we were supposed to be going out 2nite just wanted to see what the story is i have been playing it very cool up until now

catratbat

Well if ye don't hear from him later you'll have a fair inkling why...

shellyboo

Unregistered wrote: »

op here..the only reason i texted him that last nite was we were supposed to be going out 2nite just wanted to see what the story is i have been playing it very cool up until now

Yeah, so he had all of last night and all of today to get in touch with you... and you shouldn't be "playing" it any way. Just be straight with the guy, ffs. If you like him, ring him up and ask him to go out. Don't go off on one at him because you haven't heard from him in 24 hours. It's more than a bit bunny boiler-esque. I think you've blown this one.

IPushButtons

Or you could try this

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labradoodlelady

shellyboo wrote: »

and you shouldn't be "playing" it any way. Just be straight with the guy, ffs.

One of the best comments I've seen on this.

I'm so so fed up with friends playing it cool, playing not interested, not texting for 2 days. Just play it straight and chillax over stuff like this.