Can anyone explain?

LegacyUser

I used to hang around of a lot of guys my age(19), then i met a girl who was older then me by a few years and then I started hanging around with her friends. We broke up since and due to the bad break-up they want nothing to do with me anymore. Now when I hang out with ppl my age, I cant stand it. Childish games and silly little things they do.
I mean, they are so annoying with their games and stuff, i`m constantly bored. When we go out to nightclubs, I stare at these people in their teens and all i can do is want to leave, all they do is snog the face of each other and mess about. I cant stand it. I find it really disgusting.
The whole spending hours in a nightclub walking around looking at D4 girls with their fake tan and wild outfits, they look like slappers/sluts, drives me mad. Does any normal girl go some other place where they don` do this, where they actually act themselves and looking for a relationship/friendship rather then this silly "meeting" thing that`s going around. What sort of crap is that? Either you like someone or you don`t, there is no in between. How can people belittle themselves and have like 3guys/girls at once.
Sorry i`m just ranting now...:)

so can anyone explain whats happening to Dublin? Or is it just me?

LegacyUser

Err? Not a relationship issue but lighten up, oh and use protection lots of protection.

Monkey61

Well if you don't like going to clubs that are full of teenagers - don't go to them. Go to different ones!!

In fairness you are being ridiculously judgemental. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to happily run around a club kissing loads of people. That sounds like loads of fun to me and I am almost 26. There is nothing disgusting about it whatsoever and you have no right to judge anyone that wants to do that. At 18/19, lots of people don't go out to clubs to look for friendships and serious relationships! Clubs anyway aren't really the best places for that at any age.

If you find the company of your friends boring then maybe you need to find new friends. I'm not quite sure what childish games and silly things they do - but not all 19 year olds are like that, it just depends on the people and their interests. What kind of stuff do you like to do? Figure that out and then figure out how to make new friends who have the same interests.

Oh and also, you cannot complain about the immaturity of everyone around you and then start throwing childish insults and stereotypes at random strangers - D4 girls, sluts etc. That is ridiculously immature behaviour and suggests that you yourself have a lot of growing up to do.

RossFixxxed

What the above said. Let people do what they want when they're out (once it's not hurting anyone). What does it matter if people are running around doing their thing. Are you jealous they're not kissing you.

Who cares about fake tan? Are they actually from D4? Throwing silly insults and your toys out of the pram doesn't help.

If you dont like those sort of people/clubs dont bloody go to them!

labradoodlelady

They're your friends. Stop being so condescending towards them. Who cares if they want to run naked down O Connell Street or snog 6 different girls in Coppers on a Saturday night. If they're not your mates then what difference does it make to you.

If you don't like these places then don't go to them.

You need to take the stick out of your arse and lighten up a bit.

tolteq

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I used to hang around of a lot of guys my age(19), then i met a girl who was older then me by a few years and then I started hanging around with her friends. We broke up since and due to the bad break-up they want nothing to do with me anymore. Now when I hang out with ppl my age, I cant stand it. Childish games and silly little things they do.
I mean, they are so annoying with their games and stuff, i`m constantly bored. When we go out to nightclubs, I stare at these people in their teens and all i can do is want to leave, all they do is snog the face of each other and mess about. I cant stand it. I find it really disgusting.
The whole spending hours in a nightclub walking around looking at D4 girls with their fake tan and wild outfits, they look like slappers/sluts, drives me mad. Does any normal girl go some other place where they don` do this, where they actually act themselves and looking for a relationship/friendship rather then this silly "meeting" thing that`s going around. What sort of crap is that? Either you like someone or you don`t, there is no in between. How can people belittle themselves and have like 3guys/girls at once.
Sorry i`m just ranting now...:)

so can anyone explain whats happening to Dublin? Or is it just me?

A fried of mine is from Dubai, and she is around your age actually. But she always goes silent when i mention anything remotely sexual. lol. i told her one day that i liked kissing, and she said she went red in the face and that she was bad just by listening to me! lol.

I think you just need to root out a nice girl somewhere. now stop whinging and get on with your life!

Nevyn

I couldn't stand teens my age even before I was in several relationships wtih people who were older. You are seeing the difference in maturity levels, ( not that younger people can't be that mature just some aren't) and it is up to you who you want to have as your friends in you life and what type people and age should not come into it.

If you want to have friends which have a more mature out look and dynamic then make it happen, but remember age is not a guarantee of maturity or wisdom. It sounds like you have out grown your friends due to the opportunities that relationship afforded you with.