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Should I tell her?

  • 19-05-2009 9:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok long story short, i broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago.It was due to his constant cheating, lies etc etc etc.I have moved on and am seeing someone for the last year. However, I was getting unwanted texts and phonecalls from my ex and he wouldnt leave me alone. He was bascially saying that he wanted a bit of fun with me and wanted to meet up.I ignored all of them. It really started when me and my boyfriend bumped into him on a night out. He hadnt seen me with anyone else before this night. He is going out with a girl since we broke up.I never replied to him thinking he would stop texting or ringing but he only stopped when she found a text on his phone to my number. the number wasnt stored and she didnt know he it was. The text said that he could so with a bit of fun with me for an hour.So she checks phone and then starts ringing my phone at 6 in the morning from a private number. A text from him followed giving me her mobile number and telling me not to answer any calls from her or answer any private numbers.I told my boyfriend a few days before that the whole story cos I really dont want this to ruin me and him at all.I replied to him that day and he told me that he gave her a false name of who the number was and that all was ok with them again.my voicemail was just the standard vodafone one, ie not giving my name so she didnt know for def it was me. He basically warned me not to say anything to her.My background with him is that you could trust him at all and I learned the hard way but if I was told back then it would have saved me a lot of heartache that I wouldnt even wish on my worst enemy.I have a few hundred texts that he sent me in the last three months but should I let her know he is lying?? Would you like to know??If yes I'd welcome any ideas cos in the end I dont want to be seen as the major witch here cos I did nothing wrong.


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  • #2
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    I think you should just ignore the pair of them and say nothing. She'll find out just like you did what type of person he is. Its tempting to land him in it but don't bother. Too much of a waste of energy.


  • #3
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    He sound like a louse and a bully and by lying for him you are allowing him bully you. I wouldnt ring her but I would not lie for him either if she does manage to get in touch with you.


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