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how to analyse texts..she loves me not?

  • 18-05-2009 9:15pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok so we are in college. We never really talk in college but she knows I like her. We are finished now about 3 weeks. I texted after a week and she replied and there was a bit of banter, about 4 texts. Then a few days later I texted her and she texted back about 10 hours later but then there were 15 texts back and forth until about 2 in the morning. Then she texted me a few days later, and I replied straight away and got nothing back. Then the day after I sent her a message asking how she was getting on or whatever and that was last saturday. Havent heard back since.
    I'm thinking she's playing hard to get but I'm confused. Should I wait til friday night then think of an excuse to ring her? This texting lark would fry your brain. Can a girl tell me if I should forget about it or what...haha


Comments

  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Call her.

    On Friday she will probably already have plans.

    Call her sooner and make plans.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,081 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    I don't want to seem rude. But the fact that you' were in college together and "never really talked" isn't great, considering she knows you like her.

    If she liked you in return she'd make an equal effort to engage you, and you'd probably have already hit it off.

    The texting game is a load of bollox and can't be analysed at all. People text each other the whole time, it doesn't necessarily mean that theirs any feelings attached.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 387 ✭✭gimme5minutes


    I'd be a big fan of texting but your approach is all wrong if you want to go on a date with her. Your not looking to be another gf for her so all this texting back and forth about nothing isn't doing you any favours. If you are texting a girl to ask her out first text should be 'how are you getting on', the next text should be 'so are you doing anything friday', simple as that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,588 ✭✭✭Bluetonic


    I don't want to seem rude. But the fact that you' were in college together and "never really talked" isn't great, considering she knows you like her.

    If she liked you in return she'd make an equal effort to engage you, and you'd probably have already hit it off.

    The texting game is a load of bollox and can't be analysed at all. People text each other the whole time, it doesn't necessarily mean that theirs any feelings attached.
    Thats absolutely spot on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,642 ✭✭✭kev_s88


    is there anything that you know that makes you think she actually does like you in return??? cause it sounds kinda like a one-way thing...you always seem eager to text back as soon as you can but she doesnt seem the same... has she ever given you hints that she does actually like you as opposed to being friendly?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here.

    Yeah maybe youre all right it does seem one way.

    Well she's texted out of the blue during college, and I have talked to her but not talked talked like at a personal emotional level. I thought cos of the volume of texts that 15 text time that there was a chance so I'm a bit confused. Maybe shes just really busy. Maybe shes met someone else. Maybe shes playing games. I dont know!


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