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Too Slow to make a move

  • 18-05-2009 1:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Girls, if you like a fella and he seems to like you back but doesn't make a move, will you say something or just move on?


Comments

  • #2
    Jack Sheehan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,693 ✭✭✭Jack Sheehan


    Uh, why not make a move yourself?


  • #3
    StormWarrior
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    I would give him some extra smiles and be flirty but if he didn't make the first move, I wouldn't either so I guess I'd just move one, as I would assume he wasn't interested.


  • #4
    Squor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭Squor


    Guys n Gals,
    People are strange and I am one of them. I would 100% agree if he aint playing ball ask him/her!!!!!! BUT........ There is a girl I like, have liked her for ages, we went on a date last June, to the cinema, bad first date, I know that now!!!!!! Have been goin on a yr now, but I really want nothing more than to ask her out, and have kinda but for various reasons it hasnt happened, but keep going, keep a cut off date in your mind, if ya have no joy, its time to move on unfortunately. BTW, my cut off is this August, so if no joy, its time to move on. Keep the chin up!!!!!!!!


  • #5
    deathstarkiller
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,158 ✭✭✭deathstarkiller


    I've spent my whole life waiting forever to make the first move and usually (always) the girl moves on and I never learn. Sometime's it's just so fecking difficult. You start thinking, oh she just thinks we're friends or how awful it'll be if you go to make a move and you get rejected by someone you now count as a friend. I've already done it once this year, spent three months going for drinks and going to the cinema, etc. with someone but I couldn't figure out if she just seen us as friends. I spent every time we were together looking for a sign that she wanted me to make a move but I didn't see any so I didn't. Now, I don't hear from her anymore, I found out she's seeing a guy and a friend of hers told me she was into me but got fed up waiting. I guess her spending time with me was the sign that she wanted me to make a move. Doh!
    So my advice is show him some signs or ask before you do move on cause some (alot) of us guys are bloody useless at all this.


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