I'm very Confused and need some serious advice

LegacyUser

I'm very confused about this girl and need advice before i do something stupid.

So i met this girl in work. We are the same age and both in college. She seems to be a flirty girl in my opinion however im unsure whether she is interested in me or just being herself. She initiated contact with me by getting my number from a co worker but she only texts me after i text her. In work she tells me about other guys that she likes and has often tried to assess what my type of girl is.

We get on well and generally chat about everythin and we have both confessed things that we believe to be very confidential information about our different social circles. By the by We dont live in the same areas and hence we generally would never conincidentaly bump into each in social situations.

She has come to my defence in work on occassion, while we both playfully insult each other more recently things were a little physical when she hit me i feigned injury to her amusment, she even wrote her name and a heart on my arm. She has also passed favourable comment on my body and asserts id only wish to be with her in a playful way. She admitted to dreaming about me but wont say in what way just that I was in her dream.

We text every now and then, most recently she, being herself, determined that she could have me if she truly wanted me, but it was not in a vain arrogant way but a more mysterious way. When she asked what i thought of her i said i was too shy to say while she quickly dismissed this wit 'i dont really care anyway' but then said she thinks im cool but in denial of her greatness.

if u need more info or have questions which may help do please ask i need help

I think this is generally my problem... im seriously confused... my head is all over the place... I think ive got a serious crush on this girl but i dont want to be made a fool of.

what can anyone make of this situation? What should i do? Does she really like me or is it just her nature which is leading me on??? Can anyone determine her actually thoughts from this???

Shelga

You like her.

She likes you. (Or certainly seems to.)

Life is for living, ask her out! It's the only way you'll know for sure.

Good luck!

LegacyUser

The person before me is right. She likes you. Don't ask her out, tell her you're going somewhere and she's welcome to come along. Then make your move, but build up to it natually. Much, much worse men than you have ended up with great women.

LegacyUser

it certainly sounds like she likes you.

You won't be made a fool of...you don't have to declare your undying love for her in the middle of the office...just suggest you go for a drink after work or something and see what happens from there.

Go for it

LegacyUser

i reckon she likes u, u should probably go for it if its were u want to go

LegacyUser

go for it she has to be interested

kev_s88

just ask her straight up if she likes you.....i will agree that nothing is worse than trying to figure out a girl who is naturally flirty....so all ya can do is suck it up and say something to her....the worst that can happen is you'll find out she doesnt like you in that way...the best of course is that she likes you and you something comes of it all

LegacyUser

u need to go or it life is for living

ConfusedSheikra

:Dsounds like she is seriously into u, so i think u should just bite the bullet and go for it with her:)

Captain-America

Whether she likes you or not OP, you won't regret asking her out.

You will regret not doing anything about it.

Katgurl

she likes you. ask her if she fancies a pint after work some evening.

LegacyUser

i reckon she either likes you very much or else she is just a complete tease, either way its prob best if u bite the bullet and just ask her...

LegacyUser

Ok, speaking as a girl I'd say she's definitely interested! It sounds like she's trying to leave all these signals and is just waiting for you to pick up on them. So do it! She's probably going mad waiting, and if you leave it too long the opportunity might pass you by.