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How often should u text???

  • 11-05-2009 2:10pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i have a friend im really into, i got a serious crush on her, im not sure of her true intentions but shes a bit of a flirt. Anyhow she got my number and text me first however now she only ever replies to my messages, so i gotta get the ball rolling... how often should i text with her because i dont want to scare her off or be overly intrusive...


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    See, all of that is just plain messing about imo.

    Let's keep it simple shall we?
    If you like the girl, phone her up and ask her out on a date.
    Straight forward and no messing about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Think of it this way - how many texts would you find acceptable yourself ? If you send her a text or two every day, you might annoy her. Send her one soon and try and keep the conversation going,if she is reponsive, just ask her to meet


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    See, all of that is just plain messing about imo.

    Let's keep it simple shall we?
    If you like the girl, phone her up and ask her out on a date.
    Straight forward and no messing about.

    Coudn't agree more.
    I've been ther ein the past sending pointless texts and analysing every reply.

    I can tell you from experience that you will wreck your own head - and probably frighten her off in the meantime.

    You just gotta ask her out and let that be the end of it.


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