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  • 09-05-2009 11:35pm
    #1
    AvAv
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73 ✭✭


    Hey, Im having a problem here, which is that although im in a pretty amazing relationship, why do i keep thinking about my ex?

    Hes cool and all, but he shouldnt pop into my head as much as he does.

    Its really unfair on my BF, who doesnt even know somethings up, So should i tell him that im having doubts about us?

    Thanks. :pac:


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  • #2
    StopNotWorking
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 645 ✭✭✭StopNotWorking


    You just said you're in a pretty amazing relationship, yet you go on to say you're having doubts? I thought about my ex for a while after I got in my current relationship but I sure as hell didn't consider it a reason to call things off. It's all up to you but you gotta make your mind up, are you in an amazing relationship or not? If you are then what are the doubts about? Do you not like being tied down? Is he not right for you? Either way don't jump the gun and say anything to him, he'll get very very scared.


  • #3
    bluecell99
    Closed Accounts Posts: 259 ✭✭bluecell99


    Yes,you should tell him.You obviously have not moved on from your "EX" and its not fair on your new man.Give him the chance to find someone who is available.


  • #4
    ellie1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 360 ✭✭ellie1


    AvAv wrote: »
    Hey, Im having a problem here, which is that although im in a pretty amazing relationship, why do i keep thinking about my ex?

    Hes cool and all, but he shouldnt pop into my head as much as he does.

    Its really unfair on my BF, who doesnt even know somethings up, So should i tell him that im having doubts about us?

    Thanks. :pac:

    I think you need to seperate the two issues. Thinking about exs and comparing them to current bf is something a lot of people do. I think its quite normal but usually passes after some time.

    The having doubts about your current relationship. Is this becasue of the dreams becuase you say your in an amazing relationship?

    I think if the case is you havent moved on and would prefer to be in a relationship with ex, then end current relationship.

    If the case is your ex pops into your head now and again , stay in current relationship, it usually passes.


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