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  • 06-05-2009 4:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok so i have been kissing this guy that i am good friends with over the past two months and i havent slept with him yet. I have realised that i am really mad about him but he doesnt want a relationship as he never goes out with people. Yet he is inviting me to weddings with me and is very affectionate in public even though he says he doesnt want to be a couple granted he has a few beers on him when he is affectionate. Basically i dont know what to do i know it is probaly going to end up as a f%%% buddy situation should i just settle for that. We get on great and i love being in his company as i said he doesnt want a relationship, i cant understand why not i think we would be a super couple???


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Unregistered wrote: »
    We get on great and i love being in his company as i said he doesnt want a relationship

    I honestly just don't get comments like this.
    He doesn't want a relationship. He said so.
    Now if you do, then cut him loose and move on.
    In fact, as you seem to be into him, that's exactly what you should do.
    Otherwise, be assured, misery and heartache are in the post.


  • #3
    username123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭username123


    You get what you settle for. If you settle for FB status and continue to let him call the shots on not having a relationship then rest assured youll be miserable and unhappy.

    Move on and find someone who wants the same things you want.


  • #4
    gabbygirlgavin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27 ✭gabbygirlgavin


    Maybe you could give him an ultimatum? relationship or end of it.... go with your gut on this one, its your heart on the line here!


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    He's made it clear he doesn't want a relationship and by getting into a F8ck Buddy situation when you really like the guy will only completely wreck your head and break your heart m'dear so cut him loose. Never commence a f8ck buddy situation in the hope it will lead to more when he has quite clearly told you he doesn't want any type of relationship.

    I'd view this as your lucky escape tbh....stop kissing him!

    You never know, he may just realise he actually likes you if you cut him loose.


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