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Jealous Girl

  • 06-05-2009 4:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I get terrible jealous of my boyfriend, were together 3 years. we used to live together and do EVERYTHING together. now he lives back at home about 30 minutes away and i am so jealous the whole time there is no real need to be. hes out drinking 4/5 nights a week and this drives me mad. Im finding it hard to adjust to him not being there 24 hours a day. and he is redundant now along with a few friends. I just dont know what to do - i know im a bit mental :)


Comments

  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    How is he drinking 4/5 nights a week if he's not working?


  • #3
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    A wise critter once said jealousy is the shadow of greed, and can only lead to bad things and trouble ahead. Deal with it before it ruins your relationship.

    Beruthiel wrote: »
    How is he drinking 4/5 nights a week if he's not working?

    You know that ever increasing chunk that gets sliced off your payslip every month? Say hello to an over-generous social welfare system. There have been many such cases included in posts on this forum recently. I wish I was able to go drinking 4/5 nights a week. If I get out one night out a week to enjoy myself I'm doing well. And by that I mean the cinema, or dinner. Nights on the beer are an unfortunate thing of the past.


  • #4
    eddie.fandango
    Closed Accounts Posts: 151 ✭✭eddie.fandango


    Unregistered wrote: »
    i know im a bit mental :)

    I think you've answered your own question, let the boy enjoy himself.


  • #5
    gabbygirlgavin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27 ✭gabbygirlgavin


    im afraid to say it...
    you have bacome co dependant of your other half. You need to get out more with your own friends and get hobbies away from him. Dont get me wrong, stay with the boy, but get back to the way your life should be... not revolved around him.


  • #6
    Chocoholic84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 881 ✭✭✭Chocoholic84


    Out drinking 4/5 nights every week? I'd be questioning whether he had a problem with drink, tbh...


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