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how to ask one of your good friends out

  • 04-05-2009 10:02am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey folks,have a bit of a dilema
    im 20 year old guy and i mad about this girl whose also 20 that iv known for years...
    Weve been friends for years and we used to have a thing back when we were about 15 and right there and then i knew she was fantastic and the one for me but things just never really materialised after that and sadly i moved away a couple of years later,great thing was we stayed in touch and know iv moved back into the same town and weve been seeing a lot more of each other recently and i think she might have a thing for me cus shes always coming over to my house and hanging out even at the oddist times and know that iv been seeing more of her all those feelings i had for here when we where young have been coming back lately,shes great fun to be with,can actually make me laugh out loud and has this attitude about her i just cant get enough of and on the plus side shes a slammin hotty,my problem is i cant get up enough courage to ask her out cus im affraid if she says no thats the friendship over and i would defonatly not want that...it just eats me up that i cant tell the girl who gave me butterflies the first time i saw,that she still does,ever time i see her now...
    so any advice on asking her out or any similer experiences would be great.


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  • #2
    Nervous Wreck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    If you really really can't get up the courage to ask her out, your best bet is to keep spending time together. But on top of that, you have to remain open to (and conscious of) flirtations. Every little thing could count. Things may develop naturally this way.... But to be honest, one of you will eventually have to take the plunge. You could even allude to your feelings at scattered intervals (though don't be too over the top)... Take it handy and when the moment comes, do not miss it. She sounds like she's mad about you too... Prepare yourself for the possibility of a great thing.


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