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Date Advice required :)

  • 28-04-2009 8:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey Lads n Lassies,

    Met a lovely girl from america in town at the weekend.
    She's here for a year or whatever and lives in Kildare.. Im in Dublin myself .. and i was wondering would it be a bad idea to go down to her and bring her up to dublin to do something in the city ( eg.. awkwardness in the car coming up or whatever lol)

    Or head down that direction myself and find something fun to do ( Bowling ? )

    probably obvious but im hopeless haha

    Cheers!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Hey Lads n Lassies,

    Met a lovely girl from america in town at the weekend.
    She's here for a year or whatever and lives in Kildare.. Im in Dublin myself .. and i was wondering would it be a bad idea to go down to her and bring her up to dublin to do something in the city ( eg.. awkwardness in the car coming up or whatever lol)

    Or head down that direction myself and find something fun to do ( Bowling ? )

    probably obvious but im hopeless haha

    Cheers!

    I would do the guiness tour and go to the guiness bar at the end to have a point ,if the weather is good, go for a walk in stephens green.


  • #3
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Better here methinks as not a personal issue.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #4
    inspiron6000
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 61 ✭✭inspiron6000


    japenese gardens, national stud and then 2 kildare village outlet for food and browsing??


  • #5
    ttilting
    Closed Accounts Posts: 106 ✭✭ttilting


    Good question ,,,,

    I would avoid picking her up in car on the first date ..... (even though you met her while out & about). . . . .
    The 'phycology' of YOU going to HER, takes away the mutual act of two people deciding to meet, , , and neither feeling they 'HAVE' to go because the arrangements are made (obviously after the firs date this is fine) .... <<not explained very well but im tired>>>

    As for the 'date' my advice would be to do something that you know YOU will enjoy, ,,,, this helps you to be yourself.... Ideally something that will get both of you talking.

    My 'tactic' is always a drinks and a meal with lots of alcohol.... but thats just because i know we'll both enjoy it (if she doesn't she's definitely not for me!)

    I always think you should start with a '''''romantic'''''' setting .. and try to have fun there..... as apposed to starting in a ''fun'' location and trying to be romantic ( in a lesuireplex ! )


    To sum up ...Key ingredients

    1 - both make your own way (kildare is not too far away ! )
    2 - Something YOU enjoy (so you are comfortable)
    3 - The Setting should be '' romantic-ish-'' - - - ( I prefer candle a lit meal ! but then I love conversation, good food & wine <cocktails> - recommendations- Louigy Malones > boulavard Cafe> Trocadero> A;; reasonably priced and not too formal.)


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