Ladies help needed.....

LegacyUser

Have started seeing a girl and she mentioned that she has tests to see what a guy was like. Was wondering what these could be?


Do ladies of this forum have little things that they expect a man to do or say? If so what are they as i want to make her happy?

My only one is if i bring out a lady and i pay for the meal, i expect the girl to at least offer to buy the first drink after. Tells me if she is really into me or at least a decent girl.

Silverfish

I think every single human being has tests to see if they like someone as a potential partner.

Its called 'getting to know them'.

You either find dealbreakers, or you don't.

Unregistered

Unregistered wrote: »

Do ladies of this forum have little things that they expect a man to do or say? If so what are they as i want to make her happy?

Yes, I expect a man not to be a doormat trying to get rid of his personality in an attempt to please me and nothing more.
I also expect not to be thrown into a vast generalising category of "what women want" without any effort to get to know me and what makes me tick personally.

I think that covers it

Terodil

Unregistered wrote: »

Have started seeing a girl and she mentioned that she has tests to see what a guy was like.

How old is she?

Unregistered wrote: »

Do ladies of this forum have little things that they expect a man to do or say? If so what are they as i want to make her happy?

How old are you?

erms

It doesn't matter what her tests are.
By being yourself (mostly), you'll either pass them or fail them. And if you fail them then you wouldn't have been right together. Would you rather that she was only with a persona you created for her or really with you?

aidan24326

Unregistered wrote: »

Have started seeing a girl and she mentioned that she has tests to see what a guy was like. Was wondering what these could be?


Do ladies of this forum have little things that they expect a man to do or say? If so what are they as i want to make her happy?

My only one is if i bring out a lady and i pay for the meal, i expect the girl to at least offer to buy the first drink after. Tells me if she is really into me or at least a decent girl.

She sounds a little immature by telling you that, so I'm guessing you're both young. Just be yourself and don't ever try to be anything you're not. It isn't a game. If you then fail one or more of her 'tests' it means you just might not be compatible. No harm in that either.

BumbleB

Stand up to her .Never ever take s***e like that from a woman .
You might be young but youre still a man .

What you should have said back was Oh ! I have a few tests of my own for you.

Lord knows a woman will psychologically test you many times during a relationship without that.

good luck !

Kimia

I can't believe she had the b*lls to actually say to you that she has 'tests'. That's insane! She's going to be testing you to see if you pass or fail is that it?

I would be very insulted. If a guy said that to me, I'd tell him to screw him and his tests, and if he doesn't like me for who I am he can f*ck off.

John Mason

mate, i would walk away from this girl immediately.

she has tests?

she likes to play games and will end up wrecking your head. The only reason she told you, she has tests is to keep up on your feet and bending over backwards to please her

do you really want to be with a game player?

RossFixxxed

Leaving Cert, College Exams, Driving test, blood tests... These are all miserable things that I am well glad to be shot of.... I wouldn't fancy someone "testing" me like that. The appropriate response is 'grow the hell up'.