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Don't know what to say....

  • 21-04-2009 11:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i hooked up with this girl about a week or so ago. Later i added her as a friend on Bebo. She lives far away, and i havent seen her since or talked to her.
    I'd like to maybe see if she wanted to try start a relationship, even if it is long distance. I'm not sure if she wanted to see me again or not after, but i got the feeling that she did. (We did hang out the next day until she had to head off again. )
    But the thing is, im horribly inexperienced at this sort of stuff, and i have absolutely no idea what to say or ask her without sounding like a loser or a psycho. Any ideas?


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  • #2
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    Bebo would be a bad way to ask someone out. Sure you can talk to her on it and have a nice friendly chat.

    Long distance can be tricky though sometimes. Just speaking from experience. There's no harm in trying but you should meet up a few more times if possible and if things seem to be working out ok then go for it. No harm at all in trying. You may end up regretting it if you don't.

    Just make sure you don't message her on bebo saying "do you want to go out?" It'll mean more talking face to face.

    Best of luck.


  • #3
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Did you give her your home phone number ? Can you text her and ask a few simple things like ' hey there ,how's your day going at college /work / home ? Fancy meeting for a drink /coffee ? Usually the first steps are the hardest but if you push it bit by bit you'll know pretty soon if it's going anywere .Good luck .


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