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Help my head is wrecked

  • 21-04-2009 5:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I need some advice
    I have a habit of going through my boyfriends phone now I know its wrong but I do it anyway
    First issue was texts from an ex who was also leaving messages all a socail networking site for each other. I let him know I didn't like it .He deleted her from the social net working site But kept her number on his phone ( I know this because I checked his phone)
    This calmed me down for a while but the old habits die hard so I have been looking on his phone again and now he is texting some one else. . Now I know going through his phone is wrong but I have a feeling I am dealing with a player here . They sent each oher a few texts last friday night And then called this girl at half one in the morning . why? I think he is cheating what should I do?


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  • #2
    Stheno
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    Talk to him instead of snooping through his phone.


  • #3
    puglover
    Closed Accounts Posts: 442 ✭✭puglover


    nouggatti wrote: »
    Talk to him instead of snooping through his phone.

    +1

    You need to talk to him.

    BUT imo phone calls at 1.30 am only mean one thing....Booty call


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    puglover wrote: »
    +1

    You need to talk to him.

    BUT imo phone calls at 1.30 am only mean one thing....Booty call

    +1

    Hate to say it but.......


  • #5
    Nickibaby*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 676 ✭✭✭Nickibaby*


    You have no right going through his phone! No wonder he is 'talking' to other girls. I am a firm believer in what you think comes true. You think he is cheating all the time. Therefore he probably will.

    Stop snooping. You wouldn't like if he was 'monitoring' your every action.


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    1.30am on a Friday night is most definitely a booty call. Doubt he's phoning her to see how her potato crop is doing or how the Yen stands against the Dollar.

    I'm sure your insecurity isn't helping either. Nothing more off-putting than neediness and cumpulsive phone/email snooping. More often than not it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy imho.

    I'd cut him loose and find someone you can be with whom you can trust.


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  • #7
    liger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 756 ✭✭✭liger


    Miss Fluff wrote: »
    .

    I'd cut him loose and find someone you can be with whom you can trust.


    I agree because he's only going to dump you because you keep invading his privacy.


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