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  • 20-04-2009 5:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok here it goes, Did a really stupid thing last week and kissed a bloke i shouldn't have i've been in a relationship for the past 8 years he also has a girlfriend and two small children. I knew it was wrong but did it anyway. We have being flirting for months the harmless kind i thought but it came to a head last week with this kiss now im so embarrassed i cant even look at him or him me. we are not bad people or at least i didn't think i was untill now i don't want to be that woman i mean the one who wreaks his relationship or mine for that matter. I am being eating up by guilt and am snapping at my partner for the least little thing. Has anyone out there got any experience of this sort of thing because i could really do with some advice i can't talk to my friends about this i am so ashamed

    thanks


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  • #2
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    It happened, it was something that shouldn't have but you can't change the past. You can only change the present and the future. Avoid the guy, learn from your mistake and put as much effort into the feelings of guilt into your 8 year relationship.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #3
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    A kiss is probably the least you could have done but it's still unacceptable especially you've been in an 8 year relationship.

    You're both in relationships so what were you both thinking?
    You should come clean to your partner A.S.A.P before he hears it from someone else.


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    It all depends now on where to take it from here. If you want to pursue this further then do the decent thing and split up with your partner first. If you have realised it was a huge mistake, keep your mouth shut, vow never for it to happen again and maybe explore what's missing in your relationship. Even just a snog can be symptomatic that all is not well so give it some thought. (And ffs don't take it out on your poor unsuspecting BF).


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