Girlfriends friend is real nasty to me

LegacyUser

Hey just a quickie, girlfriends friend is a total psycho to me sometimes. Strangely at first when I met my gf, well actually it was a long distance thing, so the first time I went to my gf's country and met her friend, her friend was really cool. We got along great, she used to tell me all these nice things about my gf, and about how my gf wished so much that I would come. Now though lately shes a total bitch, throws random insults at me, and belittling comments (the kiddy type like when I say something she might randomly just say "shut up", which is a defense I know, so that if I call her out she can make it out like i am the one over reacting). I generally just ignore her. I just dont get it though, wheres this come from! whats she at? She asks questions privately sometimes on IM about my feelings in our relationship like how much i like my gf and all that. Note that this relationship is still long distance.

Wibbs

For a start I'd stop talking to her privately on IM. That kinda thing can get ugly, if she is trying to drive a wedge between you and your GF for whatever reason. She's your GF's mate, not yours so keep everything public.

star-pants

Agree with Wibbs there, don't talk to this girl in private. Just block her so you appear offline to her, thus you're not ignoring her, but you won't be in teh situation of having to talk to her. I'm not sure what she's up to , if she's up to anything but I'd just watch myself and keep the contact to your GF.

Leprachaun

I'd guess she fancies you.

mardybum

A, She fancies you and is trying to get your attention.Drive a wedge between you.

B, She's jealous of the affection your gf gives to you, and is taking it out on you.

C, Your gf for whatever reason has started badmouthing you, and this girl is carrying on.

D, When she first met you she was friendly and polite, but actually you have a personality clash and just don't get on.

or

E, something else

Whatever it is, don't PM her, and if you do, keep the messages in case you need to prove they're innocent.

LadyE

Def dont talk to her privatly, keep her at distance , Id say she fancies you too and is getting defensive and nesty because of this.

pikachucheeks

Agree with everyone else who's posted on this - seems like she's trying to cause problems between you and you girlfriend, either because she fancies you, or because she's jealous of you getting attention from her friend.

Don't IM her anymore, definitely! - My advice would be to get some distance from her.

Also, if you felt the need to, you could mention to your girlfriend the stuff her friend's been saying. You might need proof from IM conversations though, as your girlfriend might have a hard time believing you...

legend73

Yep agree with most she fancies the pants off you or the g/f.

That_Guy

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I generally just ignore her.

Then just keep doing it. She may just be jealous that her best friend now has a bf and is worried that things will change now that she has you in her life.

castle

Just wondering is she good looking, and do you enjoy the bantor with her.