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Over-reaction?

  • 17-04-2009 2:45pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    not sure if i just buggered up big time with new fella. we only seeing each other bout 3 months but it aint been the easiest.

    |He not long over break up with serious girlfriend. just want nice and easy. bit of fun for both. i agree. think it takes a while to know anyway.

    thing is he has awful habit of letting me down when we organise meeting up. its usually in the club which is fine cause he drinks just out side of town and then comes in. i have me girlie giggles and then we go boogeying.twice now he's just been too hung over from the previous nite. fine done it myself.

    this last time though i couldnt go out so he said he come to me. nite in on couch, cuddles and stuff. aknowlegdes the last few times he let me down..swears he wont this time.

    i get dvd,food,ice cream...get the picture??? txt at late evening sister in town going for few. shouldnt be problem. by 11pm im pissed man. staring at phone. also drinking quiet fast as this stage...12.30pm!!! guess our night off??? looks like it he says..

    so i finish it with him. dont txt again and all that.

    but it was his sister and we arent serious but still he couldve said he had plans and could only stay a while???

    am i nuts or are men all this bad... going lesbo so!!


Comments

  • #2
    bubblewrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭bubblewrap


    No not all men are like that, he probably has jumped in too soon after his ex. If I was you, I would just leave it and move on to someone with no baggage. :)


  • #3
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Trying to read that gave me a head ache.

    From what I can (just about) gather the last time he was supposed to go to yours but didnt show and didnt let you know he wasnt coming?:confused:

    He has proven in the past,on more than one occassion to be unreliable so you are probably justified.

    I must say though,if I was getting texts that read like the OP Id probably be unreliable too.


  • #4
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    nedtheshed wrote: »
    Trying to read that gave me a head ache.
    I must say though,if I was getting texts that read like the OP Id probably be unreliable too.

    +1

    Tried to decipher that and I got that he didn't turn up when he said he would? Or he pays attention to his sister......... or something....

    Edit: Sorry that wasn't helpful.But seeing as how you're finished with him and your query relates to all men, then I'm going to go with no, all men aren't unreliable. Still haven't quite got the grasp of the issue though.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Doesnt matter that it was his sister. It takes two seconds to let someone know that your plans have changed. No not all men are like this OP, I dated a giRl for a bit who was the exact same, no consideration for anyone but herself so I dumped her. He has done this on more than one occasion so Id say your better off without him.


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