How should I ask her out?

LegacyUser

Ok before I get down to what I want to, I'm a registered poster here but staying anonymous for this one!! And also this is a bit of a pathetic post, i'm not normally lost on these matters!


So theres this girl that was on my college course, and finished the course a few weeks ago and I was lucky enough to get a job two weeks later.

Now me and this girl only rarely talked, we both seem to be generally quite people anyway and that was why but we always laughed together and i always had my eye on her! So lost contact when college finished but then last week she found me on bebo and we have been leaving comments all the time.

I like this girl and would love to ask her out, only problem is I cant quite gather if shes interested in me, bloody bebo isn't the best conversation place, i kinda detest it really!

Thats not my main problem tho, cos I'm gonna ask her out either way, whats there to lose like, i think shes interested some bit anyway! But bebo is the only contact I have with her, don't have her number or e-mail address or anything else...so how can I ask her out?!

Id really like not to ask a girl out through bebo ya know! Or could I? Seems kinda sad to me to be honest! I mean ask her for her number through bebo is a bit obvious too, clearly I'm gonna just ring and ask her out straight after that, thats what I gather she would think anyway!

I realize its not a major issue really so any suggestions or advice would be gratefully appreciated, and please take it seriously cos I am!!

Cheers in advance!

Necronomicon

Are you friendly with any of her friends? You could reach them on bebo and ask for her number (or possibly e-mail address as it's less intrusive). Obviously doing this depends on how well you know them - they might not be willing to give it up to a total stranger. Failing that, would it be the end of the world if you asked her out on bebo, if it was for a very casual thing like hanging out in a cafe? That could easily be dropped into a conversation.

Good luck.

PCPhoto

Next time you are both sending messages on Bebo ....

send her a message with your number and tell her to give you a text or call.

after that take it from there.....best of luck.

magick

Send her a bebo mail , that way its privet between you too. Suggest to her ur AIM/Msn name, that way you can at least get a conversation going (ok so its online not a proper conversation, but u know what i mean). Then u can trade numbers arrange to meet up etc......

supershazf

ya defo send her a private mail and either give her your phone number or ask for hers if she likes you she will give you her no or text you and if not she just wont, go for it at least then you will know and you can either get together or move on!!!i wish other guys would just take the initative and ask for a phone number instead of slobering on you in the pub.there has to be another way to meet decent fellas!!!!!!!!!!!