She's so different when she's drunk...

LegacyUser

iv been going out wit my girlfriend now 4 about 10months and we are actually totally in love... we constantly jus tell eachother how much we love eachother and its great i cudn ask 4 more...

but there is jus one thing dat annoys me about her and its wen she's drunk. i dont know if its jus me bein too possesive of her or what(please tell me if you tink so).. it jus really annoys me wen she wonders off and jus leaves me.. i always try mix wit her friends and dats grand bu she never makes da same effort with mine.. in a night club wen she stops to tlk to her friends i stay wit her and chat away but wen i stop to tlk to mine she wonders off...
she is a natural flirt and jus loves wen fellas hang off her.. and dey do bcoz she's gorgeous.. dats why i hate wen she goes off on her own bcoz i dont lik the way she can b wen she's drunk. i know she'd never cheat but i still dont lik da flirting or even her gettin close to fellas... am i being way too possessive or is there other ppl lik me???

Silverfish

OP, please try and use your full keyboard, txtspeak is very hard to read.


Have you tried talking to her about it?

SarahSassy

too hard to read so didnt bother....

LegacyUser

sorry people... well she knows i dont like it because when she comes back i might not be too happy and she knows exactly why because she always apologises for wondering off...
she'd even apologise the next day too but it still doesnt stop her doing it.. all she says is "im just like that when im drunk.. sorry"

T-Square

Unregistered wrote: »

iv been going out wit my girlfriend now 4 about 10months and we are actually totally in love... we constantly jus tell eachother how much we love eachother and its great i cudn ask 4 more...

but there is jus one thing dat annoys me about her and its wen she's drunk. i dont know if its jus me bein too possesive of her or what(please tell me if you tink so).. it jus really annoys me wen she wonders off and jus leaves me.. i always try mix wit her friends and dats grand bu she never makes da same effort with mine.. in a night club wen she stops to tlk to her friends i stay wit her and chat away but wen i stop to tlk to mine she wonders off...
she is a natural flirt and jus loves wen fellas hang off her.. and dey do bcoz she's gorgeous.. dats why i hate wen she goes off on her own bcoz i dont lik the way she can b wen she's drunk. i know she'd never cheat but i still dont lik da flirting or even her gettin close to fellas... am i being way too possessive or is there other ppl lik me???

sounds like a slag (no offence loik):P
with no long lasting intentions towards you,
use her for practice
make sure you wrap up,
and keep your eyes peeled,
for the real deal,
you will find the one, eventually.

SarahSassy

If she is 'just like that' then you cant change her, she doesnt want to be changed and if you dont like her behaviour then you need to accept it as part of her or move on.

Kimia

Thanks for stopping the extremely annoying text speak.

I don't think you're too possessive. However, this seems to be the kind of person she is. Outgoing, flirty, etc. If you guys are totally in love well then you shouldn't worry about her, but if you think she's disrespecting you and your relationship when she does it, just tell her.

Wagon

Unregistered wrote: »

all she says is "im just like that when im drunk.. sorry"

I beat the crap out of my mother with a wok last week after a bottle of whiskey and 5 tequila slammers but im just like that when i'm drunk, sorry

What she really means is, "i like being like this when i'm drunk". Just don't bother making the effort with her friends and stay with your own mates if you're all out.

Locamon

Is this a true life example of a Bell X1 song 'such an ass**** when you're drunk -but at least I'm okay in the morning.' ?

OP you have to have the confidence or move on, I suggest you circulate yourself at these things -your girlfriend might just not be so keen when she sees you are happy enough to mingle -instead of hanging on to her when she is with her friends?

I had a friend who had this problem but when he started talking to a girl in a bar one night his girlfriend flipped out and wouldn't leave his side;) unfortunately it didn't last and he ended up going with that girl he met in the bar:pac:

magick

she loves the attention from other fellas, since this is making u uncomfortable explain this to her, if she stops all good, if she doesnt then say goodbye to her.

LegacyUser

Let her flirt a bit... it's just what giddy girls do. unless you find out that her flirtatiousness is more than that keep her. but feel free to flirt liberally yourself. that way you can play her... it's innocent and its fun. good luck

Liam Byrne

Unregistered wrote: »

iv been going out wit my girlfriend now 4....

My first reaction to that sentence was to think she's a bit young!!!!

The annoying text-speak aside, "wandering" off and leaving you "wondering" is downright rude.....you've better things to do with your night than be pissed off.

If it's not fun, say it to her, and if she doesn't change her ways then end it and go find someone that you can have fun with.

blogga

Shes an arrogant b*tch. tell her to f off.

LegacyUser

I hate to say it but I went out with a guy like that for a year. The minute we'd arrive at a pub he'd be gone and I was always left hanging around like a wallflower. He was always off flirting/chatting to women. I found out a few years later off his brother that he was doing a lot more than chatting, he was constantly having flings with other women.
Hope thats not the case for you but IMO somone who has any respect for you wouldn't leave you hanging like that.
Good luck