Intimacy Issues!!

LegacyUser

Hey there,

This probably seems crazy but sure Ill see what ye's think anyway.
My boyfriend and I are with each other for the past four months and we both live at home. Im 25 , hes 28!

Unfortunately, the only time we can be intimate with each other is when we book in hotels! But this can be very expensive!

In the car can be a bit awkward to find suitable places to park???????????

Any suggestions/ideas of where we can be intimate!


Suggestions would be helpful

bluecell99

If you're both working it's time to get your own place!Good deals to be had now.

All you need is a one bed spot somewhere as close as possible to your work.No stress about long commuting times will give ye more time together as well.

Seriously look at the options but at the age ye are there really is only the one solution in my opinion.

SarahSassy

In the absence of one or other, or both, of ye getting a place you dont have many options...

There are great deals in hotels now until such time as you want your own place(s)...

Polleta

For the cost of checking into a hotel four times a month ye would almost ehave senough to rent a place together...

Personally I've never enjoyed sex in a car or in out of the way places.

SarahSassy

Well obviously, and probably because they are only together for 4 months, they dont want to live together. Otherwise she would not be asking about places to go....

LegacyUser

SarahSassy wrote: »

Well obviously, and probably because they are only together for 4 months, they dont want to live together. Otherwise she would not be asking about places to go....

Exactly,So does anyone have suggestions to go???
I dont want to rent a place with him, bit early for that.
Even places to park where we wont be disturbed

Wibbs

Doing stuff in public, while having it's attractions is also frowned upon by the Guards if you're caught/reported.

B&B's are cheaper and they'll get even cheaper with the times we're living in.

LegacyUser

Wibbs wrote: »

Doing stuff in public, while having it's attractions is also frowned upon by the Guards if you're caught/reported.

B&B's are cheaper and they'll get even cheaper with the times we're living in.

Thats what makes it so exciting! The fear of getting caught!
Surely there must be some places that would be good to go to??
Perhaps your all keep them to yourselves

LegacyUser

You don't have to do it in a carpark. You need to be able to relax and cuddle and chat and stuff too, not just fumble frantically for a few mins and then head home.

A tent will do you just fine, if you have decent equip and you like the outdoors. You don't even have to stay out at night time, just pitch it in some remote park on a Saturday morning and cammo it up with leaves and stuff and spend the day in it.

Invest about 100 bucks in a quick-pitch 'pop' tent and maybe a few bob in an insulated ground mat and a good quality sleeping bag.

Joey the lips

i hope i dont sound prudish but I think its dangerous to ask for specific places to go. You will no doubt get spectators looking in if they are on this site.

Places "we" used to go. Dark lanes. o/h wore a dress. Friends house. not their bed. Borrowed a van.

Believe it or not if you trust the area you live. A field can be quite nice at this time of year. Not to far from the road and under the stars.

Lovely

beggars_bush

go for a walk on a nice day and get 'lost' in the forest... oh no!! find a nice quiet spot

visiting friends in other towns can be useful - an excuse to share a bed... even if its only a blow up matress...

Latchy

Garden shed might be a last resort , specially if it's cluttered but still an option .I know somebody who used their shed for just such a convenience .

LD 50

So do I. And have on the odd occasion!

Camping with your OH is great. Done it myself. Invest in a good quality tent, sleeping bag and ground mat, all big enough for 2, or 3 if you roll around alot. Just remember to leave your camp site as you found it afterwards.