What'll I do

chickster

Hey not sure how exactly to describe this and jus looking for a bit of advice.. met a lad a few weeks ago he's really hot and i think hes great but my friends seem to think i should just move on. Hes always working (hes a builder and says one night he was workin til 3am!!) and when he does want to see me it always seems to be in the early hours of the morning. Still giving him a chance because I havent had a boyfriend in years and every time i give a guy a chance it seems they are only after one thing should i jus give up on men altogether :eek:

GigaByte

You think all men are like that? You think every couple you see, the man is like that? are you for real?

chickster

No no i know other couples arent like that ah maybe i jus havin bad luck

SarahSassy

Not trying to be mean but you are a booty call, nothing more and nothing less. Have you slept with each other? Did this start in a one night stand?

If you are happy with this then continue on but if not the move on to the next guy.

LegacyUser

Listen, just cause you haven't had a boyfriend in years does not mean that you should settle for someone who by your post seems very uninterested and I doubt is that much into you.
Don't give up on men just give up on the ones that you just describe as 'hot'
there is plenty more to men than looking hot, try getting to know their personality first before making yourself too available.

chickster

hey thanks to the last message ya i know that there is more to guys than that and he does have a great personality as well think thats why im finding it hard to come to the realisation (the fact that everyone else bar me can see that he is using me ).. and i wont give up on men so haha fat chance no matter how many times u get knocked or used or or i still always have 2 believe that there are nice guys out there

LegacyUser

Have you slept with him yet? Just ask him out where is this going, more than likely he'll lie to keep you sweet to basically have you when he wants you. DUMP HIM