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Do I try and get over someone...not sure if i can!

  • 28-03-2009 1:12pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Hiy everyone..id rather go anon for this.

    This post is going to just come out making me sound like a little whiney immature child,but it is upseting me so please keep those sort of thoughts to urself! (unless its constructive criticism, cause i could probably do with a good old mega dose of that)

    Summary... I'm 19 and I'm basically madly in love with one of my friends. Have been for probably about 4 years (we've been friends since we were about 13, we live near eachother). We've had our ups and downs, but from the age of me being 14 to just a few months ago... we were extremely close. He's been one of few constant friends through my life(a short one, i know i know) so I trust him with anything. (well for some reason the trust is fading slightly, that also worries me a bit).

    But basically, I need to get over him. I don't know if he knows how I feel, but I'm almost 100% sure he does NOT feel the same way about me. Tbh, he told me about some lass he actually really liked a while ago, dunno if he still does but nothing happened. It's not good for me, it's not healthy. But the problem is, basically for the last few years... i've talked to him nearly everyday! Even if I didn't have these feelings, i'd still love him to bits as a friend.I'd miss him like crazy. Any guy I meet, gets compared to him. Hence... no successful relationships - I end up freaking out and just ending anyhting before it gets a chance to start.

    At times I have a bit of a dramatic personality, and I know its not really a very attractive thing! I over read things... sometimes I think things are so strong between us.. and then I feel like we're drifting apart. Sometimes I think maybe I should just stop talking to him, and see if he actually misses me when I go...we've been constant in eachothers lives.

    When we were younger... we were sorta like.... a couple on our estate. We were known for always being closer than everyone else.... He wouldnt like if i went off with the others guys even just as friends and stuff. There WAS something there. I just became very stressed over the last year or two, and maybe I just showed him TOO much of me.. but then again he knows everything.

    So.. after my rammble (thanks for letting me get it all out).

    What do I do with myself?


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