Liking a friend should I tell him or not?

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Hey Guys

I want to ask your advice on something.I was really good firends with a guy then one drunken night we kissed.I'd liked him for 3 years before.We had a chat about it and decided to give it a go.We kind of drifted apart although i still liked him.We were out at a party a few weeks later and he kissed my friend he later apologised for it.But now my friend loves him and i cannot get him out of my head.Its hard because we see eachother everyday and i know i should distance my self but because we live in a small town.i cannot.We've not gotten really close again but my friend loves him and he has told her that they are just m8s.Do you think i should tell him how i feel?He is the type of guy to get on with everyone so maybe i'm reading too much into it.

Guys i'd like your opinion

minidazzler

No, sure you should bottle it up and just wonder what if for the next couple of years. [/sarcasm]



Of course you should tell him. It's obvious isn't it, if he doesn't want you no harm no foul, if he does great. Just tell him.

Wagon

Tell him. Lads don't have a friend zone. We don't limit ourselves. Tell him and if he says no, you have your answer. And if he says yes, then happy days.

Nervous Wreck

Might as well close the thread here cos the best advice yer gonna get it as above. Tell him.

Cormb

Wagon wrote: »

Tell him. Lads don't have a friend zone. We don't limit ourselves. Tell him and if he says no, you have your answer. And if he says yes, then happy days.

+1
he'll probably appreciate the honesty.

cissymalfoy

Cormb wrote: »

+1
he'll probably appreciate the honesty.

- ditto. The truth always comes out in the end, so you might as well do it with the control and power over the situation. But i will say this - hope for the best, but expect the worst.

CDfm

Grab him !