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Kisses on texts

  • 25-03-2009 9:45am
    #1
    bubblewrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭


    Hi,

    My bf generally puts 3-5 kisses on my texts, mainly 3 because he says he can't be bothered pressing x loads of times which doesn't surprise me BUT he puts 3 on his female friends (only has 1 female friend) texts, or sometimes 1 but mainly 3.

    Does all this really matter or should I be annoyed that I get the same as another woman?


Comments

  • #2
    Creamy Goodness
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,584 ✭✭✭✭Creamy Goodness


    read some of the other "issues" on this forum and realise how silly yours is in comparison .

    it shouldn't even matter what he does at the end of a text, it's what he shows you in real life that counts.


  • #3
    bubblewrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭bubblewrap


    I know it sounds trivial but there are other parts which make me think he puts her on a pedestal. It riles me that is all. I should be number 1.

    Just because she is a girl, doesn't mean he has to put kisses on, I am his fiancee ffs!


  • #4
    Stheno
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,690 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Bubblewrap, at this stage you are really nitpicking minor things that you think you should be "worrying" about in relation to your boyfriend.

    Really you need to get professional help.


  • #5
    bubblewrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭bubblewrap


    I don't need professional help, I just feel as if he feels as much for her as he does me and I don't like it. He says she is like a sister so why does he do it? I am not comfortable with it.


  • #6
    Gazza22
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Gazza22


    You really are taking things to a ridiculous level. I'd cut out this nonsense as soon as possible if you love him and are planning any future to the relationship.


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  • #7
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    bubblewrap wrote: »
    I don't need professional help, I just feel as if he feels as much for her as he does me and I don't like it. He says she is like a sister so why does he do it? I am not comfortable with it.

    Have you asked him to stop?


  • #8
    Lucy Lu
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 2,407 ✭✭✭Lucy Lu


    nouggatti wrote: »
    Bubblewrap, at this stage you are really nitpicking minor things that you think you should be "worrying" about in relation to your boyfriend.

    Really you need to get professional help.



    This is good advice.

    I am closing this thread.


  • #9
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    bubblewrap after a discussion with some of the other PI mods it has be decided
    to removed your access from PI/RI for a week and we hope that you will
    spend this time doing something about your personal life and mental/emotional
    state rather then repeatedly starting thread on the topic and dragging other threads off topic.

    We hope you can come back to posting in this forum a much happier person.


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