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Usual story...Crazy bout girl...you know the drill!

  • 21-03-2009 2:10am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    So seeing this girl 2-3 months and I really like her, more than anyone in a long time and alot of people have pointed this out to me, its the first time they have seen me like this over a girl etc. I am unbelievably fussy by the way. Id contemplate long and hard about who I would even kiss etc. Anyway the thing is since she was 17 she was in 3 back to back 2 year relationships and she was only out of the last one when she met me...well I lie, she met me coming to the end of her last one and apparently I played a role in the break up (i wasnt the cause, she just really liked me and it made her realise she didnt want to be with the other guy). I didnt know this though and well a few weeks after her breakup we got together. The thing is id love to actually make a go of this but she says she doesnt want another relationship at this time. She keeps her feelings close to her chest generally but when she has had a few drinks she lets her gaurd down and tells me how mad she is about me, how im different from all the other guys and how she didnt think guys like me actually existed (not sure what she meant by that one!) but next morning gaurd is back up and sometimes i feel she is not as interested as i am!

    I dont know what to do, do I just keep it casual in the hope eventually she changes her mind or cut my losses and look somewhere else before I fall too hard for her. She may come round to the idea, she may not. I couldnt keep it casual if she was seeing other guys so I dont know.


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  • #2
    star-pants
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    Thing is - she probably feels that maybe she needs a break between relationships, time for herself, get used to being single, get to know who she is on her own. But she didn't bank on meeting you and being so crazy about you. So she's now caught between knowing she really likes you and the 'i should probably be single for a bit' theory. Friends are probably saying to her to have a break too.

    You could walk away if you really want to - or you could give it a bit more time, it's only been a few months. If you really want to make a decision, you could sit her down & explain you like her and want to see where this goes, but that you want to know how she's feeling about things. To suss things out.
    Personally, if I thought there was a small chance with someone I was crazy about, I'd take it.


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