My girlfriend is fat

MotorwayTR

How do i convince her to lose weight?

sardineta

You needn't bother, for with your attitude, she won't be your g/f for much longer.

grizzly

A little more info would be good! Has she always been overweight? Have you discussed her weight with her before? What do you class as "fat"?

Stheno

sardineta wrote: »

You needn't bother, for with your attitude, she won't be your g/f for much longer.

+1 if it's such an issue for you why don't you discuss it with her?

Was she always "fat"?

MotorwayTR

sardineta wrote: »

You needn't bother, for with your attitude, she won't be your g/f for much longer.

How bad, might get meself a skinny wan then

ownknee

MotorwayTR wrote: »

How do i convince her to lose weight?

Ouch!
I'm hoping it's for medical reasons & not your own personal gratification. If it is for health reasons then I'm sure she knows herself or at least her family/ doctor has brought up the suggestion.
If it's for you then do her a favour & break up with her. She's probably going to be better off in the long run.

MotorwayTR

grizzly wrote: »

A little more info would be good! Has she always been overweight? Have you discussed her weight with her before? What do you class as "fat"?

She started to pile on the weight since christmas, she ate 3 dinners alone on christmas day, i call her a fatty from time to time but somehow its not working

ownknee

MotorwayTR wrote: »

She started to pile on the weight since christmas, she ate 3 dinners alone on christmas day, i call her a fatty from time to time but somehow its not working

Nasty!!!

Stheno

MotorwayTR wrote: »

She started to pile on the weight since christmas, she ate 3 dinners alone on christmas day, i call her a fatty from time to time but somehow its not working

I'm not surprised it's not working :eek:

Honestly Christmas was three months ago, how much weight has she put on?

Do you know what clothes size she was and is now?

And why does it bother you so much?

Hogzy

IBTL

LeixlipRed

The lad is clearly on the wind up. Some people just fall for it so easily.

thebaldsoprano

MotorwayTR wrote: »

i call her a fatty from time to time but somehow its not working

Maybe cos you're a twat?

SV

People get wound up too easy.


MotorwayTR, I suggest you lead by example and lose some of that weight you have on you.
Sitting at a computer trolling all day does **** all for your shape./

javaboy

Thanks Thaed.

MotorwayTR

nouggatti wrote: »

I'm not surprised it's not working :eek:

Honestly Christmas was three months ago, how much weight has she put on?

Do you know what clothes size she was and is now?

And why does it bother you so much?

She is bout 17 stone, big woman on campus now,she was about a size 8, people are laughing at me for being with her, saying stuff like "thats a bigggggg bitch". and "hey, look at your fat girlfriend"

gsxr1

tis a very valid problem all the same.

Kiera

Troll troll troll your boat....

Dave!

Next time she takes her clothes off just point and laugh at her

Works in 99% of cases -- FACT.

Kiera

Dave! wrote: »

Next time she takes her clothes off just point and laugh at her

Works in 99% of cases -- FACT.

Dave, how many more times do i need to say sorry. I honestly didnt mean to laugh at you

af_thefragile

Actually the more you'ld tell her/force her to lose weight, the more she'll resist. Its human nature!!

So they way to go is to ease off her back for a while.
Then instead of attacking into her, walk with her. Don't go against her, but go with her.
First you need to yourself set up an example before you start getting preachy.
Start going to the gym regularly (if you don't already do so). Then you could try inviting her once. Maybe just for a swim or something. Say it's gonna be fun and you get bored in the pool by yourself.
Then you've just gotta turn that once into another time and soon regular.
She should start going to the gym regularly with you and once you get her hooked on exercise, she'll automatically start to lose weight and look after herself better.


So yeah. This is the best way to get her to lose weight.


And STOP CALLING HER FAT!!
This will only make her resist you more. Remember when i said do go against her but walk with her... Yup. Thats what you've gotta do. So stop preaching her and forcing her to do something thats not in her to normally do. Cuz the more you do that, the more she'll resist you and the more she'll not do it... possibly even ever!

Also i'm giving you this advise cuz I believe a person needs to look after their bodies and stay in good shape and health.
Not for your personal gratification cuz you might be feeling a little ashamed to have a fat girlfriend!

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MotorwayTR wrote: »

She started to pile on the weight since christmas, she ate 3 dinners alone on christmas day, i call her a fatty from time to time but somehow its not working

Try hitting her

javaboy

Briar Wide Cooking wrote: »

Try hitting her

And we're done.