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Anniversary with ex

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  • 19-03-2009 2:25pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi

    Long time reader but never poster!

    Today I would have been 9yrs with my ex. We broke up after 6yrs - suddenly - he said he woke up and didnt love me any more :( Anyway thought I was totally over that phase of my life but today I just feel sad that all the hopes and future we had planned together were a waste.

    I feel guilty as I have a lovely bf, been together about 1.5yrs and couldnt be happier - and here I am dewelling over the past!

    I am not sure what advice I am looking for. Guess I would like to hear that how I feel is normal - or abnormal and that I need to get a life.

    Any advice greatly appreicated.

    PS not sure it matters but he was my first serious bf


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    #2
    bubblewrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭bubblewrap


    Of course it is normal, it is a grief. You can think you are ok then all of a sudden, things hit you and feelings come flooding back.

    I guess because it was a sudden one sided split, it will be harder but you will be fine, enjoy your new man. :)

    Things happen for a reason hun.


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    Tigger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,707 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    life is complicated


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