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How do i stop worrying?

  • 13-03-2009 2:21pm
    #1
    Kimono-Girl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,160 ✭✭✭


    Ok i've been looking through old posts and i can not see anything that relates to this issue...


    Im just wondering if there is anyone here who can give me some suggestions...

    the problem is i have a great OH he's been 110% since the day i met him, it may sound corney but he's the perfect guy for me, i love him with all my heart and soul! the problem is im scared,

    i have been diagnosed previously about 2/3 years ago with personality disorder which means i can at times be high maintenance/emotional/depressed, i still attend counciling but had to come off the medication when i became pregnant (it was unplanned).

    He insists i've been a normal and happy girlfriend since i met him, he hasn't noticed anything unusual and if anything the one or two 'down days' i have had have improved since coming off the meds, (plus when i am down ive promised to tell him and he usually has me smiling and happy within an hour, NO-ONE in my life has been able to accomplish this)

    i am just scared i will a: scare him off as i have done with previous ex's and b: spend the rest of my life worrying about scareing him off, i dont ever feel as bad as i used to thankfully and i dont get mood swings anymore , and everyone has been commenting on how much better my appearance and moods have been in the past year but im still under constant survellance by my doctor and councillor. and im scared it wil come back,

    how do i deal with this? i can't talk to him about it as i feel it puts him under pressure to take care of me which isn't what i want since im fine the majority of the time and he has enough Pressure with college and the baby on the way.without having to listen to me worrying about what ifs?

    how can i stop worrying?


Comments

  • #2
    New View
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11 ✭New View


    This guy obviously loves you very very much, that is a very special thing. He has seen your good sides and your bad sides and loves both. You have nothing to worry about where he is concerned. You may have smaller issues to deal with but he is not one of them. Enjoy your life together.


  • #3
    cantdecide
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    New view has said it all really.

    You sound wonderful together and he obviously knows that you are as you are and he loves you that way. Enjoy your long and happy lives together and congrats on the good news...


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