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  • 12-03-2009 11:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    Being with my bf for nearly 3 years now and in general I feel we have a pretty good relationship, were best friends, make each other laugh and enjoy spending time together. of course we have our arguements like every other couple but there is one issue that is destroying our relationship.

    In the last 6 months I have completely lost my sex drive, its not that i dont enjoy it i do its just i never feel like it. Its really tearing our relationship apart, Im content with what we have but my bf wants sex and i cant blame him! he now feels i dont love him but I do and i know its really making him miserable.

    I dont want him to have to stay with me if he is unhappy, but at the same time i would be completely destroyed if we break up as i dont think there is a nicer guy out there.

    But can a relationship last without the "spark"


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  • #2
    broin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭broin


    You wouldn't be completely destroyed. You had a life before him, and if you needed to, you can have a life after him.

    Have you had an honest conversation with him about your lack of sex life? You may struggle to find a reason, but there may not be a reason to discuss, in which case it'll just have to be something he comes to term with. Coz it may just be a lack of the right hormones and not be easily fixed.


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