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Stuck between two

  • 12-03-2009 11:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Right well i'm hopeless when it comes to relationships. I can't choose between two girls. I'm friends with both of them. I'll give a bit of history I've had with the both of them.

    Girl A - I've asked out before but got something really bad spread about me. It was completely untrue spread by some fcuker that had nothing better to do. Anyway she believed it and would barely acknowledge me for a good while afterwards. Now we're back friends again. Everything is grand. We get on fine but I rarely get to talk to her face to face for a variety of reasons. One being that I kinda chicken out. We chat fairly often on facebook. and i think i've seen the odd look and whatever but i've also noticed that when she walks by kind looks the other way. perhaps i'm reading too much into that ido it sometimes myself cause i can get shy.

    I know I may be deluded but anyway..........

    Girl B - I talk to her fairly often and we get on fairly well. I've gotten a few looks from her.

    Both are friends but not in the same group if you know what I mean. I'm looking for a bit of advice from you boardsies as I'm not lucky when it comes to asking people out etc. I've gotten nothing but I only want to be friend from others i've asked out. we've also got our debs this year so i'm hoping to ask one of them to it and maybe use that as a springboard to better things.

    I know that may come across as a bit deluded especially with Girl A.

    What do you think I should do?

    Thanks for taking your time to reading this!


Comments

  • #2
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    Simply, which one do you like better? It sounds like you may be trying to choose based on which one will be more likely to say yes.


  • #3
    puglover
    Closed Accounts Posts: 442 ✭✭puglover


    Sorry to say but you deluded if all you are going on is a couple of "looks" you may or may not have gotten.

    Decide which one you actually like and ask the girl out to cinema, disco whatever. Try actually chatting up them up, you could go all out and ask for a snog... it's the norm at your age.

    Just don't read into & over analyse everything so much, just go for it and chillax...


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Kimia wrote: »
    Simply, which one do you like better? It sounds like you may be trying to choose based on which one will be more likely to say yes.
    Agreed - figure out which one you like more and ask that one out :) good luck


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here again.

    Thanks for the replies!

    puglover: didn't have time to but everything as was after homework and trying to get to bed. it's not just looks it's talking and having the bit of fun too. i meant to put etc. after them not your fault but if you knew me deluded wouldn't be the word you'd use you'd send me to the looney bin!!! lol
    Thanks for the other advice too! i guess i kinda do over analyse stuff.

    Kimia & star-pants: Thanks for the advice. i guess you have it right with the who'll say yes thing. tbh i'm sick of no's. will have a long hard think about it over the weekend. Thanks again!


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