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Girl just keeps wanting more!!

  • 11-03-2009 11:46pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok some of you may see this as not so much of a problem, but need advice...

    Going over to visit a girl i meet a few times in a foreign country in a few weeks. Basically ive meet her twice now but talk to her every night on msn, am mad about her.

    thing is, shes mad in the sack...she just cant get enough. LAst time i was over, we'd come home about 1am and there would be no sleeping all night, she'd just keep comign back for more...hours and hours and then we'd get up and go out for the day. As great as this seems, theres only so much i can do!!
    The girl just doesnt sleep and keeps wanting more sex no matter what i do to her, i was a wreck by the end of it...and id be a young lad of 24 as horney as anyone other lad my age, but after 5 or 6 times in one night i start to lose intrest and want sleep....

    I tell her i need sleep and then she sulks, which is dam sexy normally, but at the time its not. Any tips or advice here on what to do or handle this?

    Its even one of the reasons ive started going the gym, to inprove my stamina! I know its a good problem, but its not really!!


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,931 ✭✭✭Jimmy Bottlehead


    Keep going gym! And pray that the day doesn't come when you come here complaining that she never shows any interest any more.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    heh. At the same time I wouldnt want to die from a crushed pelvis either (wait - I would)

    Youve only met her twice now? Bottled up sex drive much? I think if you were to put this into a more conventional situation it wouldnt nearly be the same issue it is here. But when you're just together for a visit I can plainly see why she may want to jump you like there is no tomorrow.

    Then of course theres other things to try on, such as toys and foreplay, lest you burn off all the cartilage in your hips.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,092 ✭✭✭pseudonym1


    Look into tantric sex!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    I imagine your going to have difficulty getting advice from people on how to prevent something they want more off but good luck.

    Have you ever considered rather than intercourse make half the night about making love. Massage/ Kissing etc even just stimulating her. That way you dont feel like again and again and again( oh the pain of it! :D)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Have you ever considered rather than intercourse make half the night about making love. Massage/ Kissing etc even just stimulating her.

    Sounds like it's worth a shot, it's a bit unfair IMO for her to make you feel guilty for wanting a break or some sleep. So perhaps do other sensual things other than intercourse. Even just gently stroking her skin (whilst you have a breather)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    It's the long distance thing. I'm in a long distance relationship myself,and that's just the way it is :D, famine or feast situation. Think of it like this, if she wasn't interested...:confused:.... then i'd be worried.

    I've gone to see my gf for weekends, and spend the entire time in bed. Bit of a waste, considering the distances and sights to be seen where she is but meh business has to be taken care of too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Oh The Humanity


    Ok some of you may see this as not so much of a problem, but need advice...

    Going over to visit a girl i meet a few times in a foreign country in a few weeks. Basically ive meet her twice now but talk to her every night on msn, am mad about her.

    thing is, shes mad in the sack...she just cant get enough. LAst time i was over, we'd come home about 1am and there would be no sleeping all night, she'd just keep comign back for more...hours and hours and then we'd get up and go out for the day. As great as this seems, theres only so much i can do!!
    The girl just doesnt sleep and keeps wanting more sex no matter what i do to her, i was a wreck by the end of it...and id be a young lad of 24 as horney as anyone other lad my age, but after 5 or 6 times in one night i start to lose intrest and want sleep....

    I tell her i need sleep and then she sulks, which is dam sexy normally, but at the time its not. Any tips or advice here on what to do or handle this?

    Its even one of the reasons ive started going the gym, to inprove my stamina! I know its a good problem, but its not really!!

    Dont worry too much, its like that at the start of a relationship. Dont forget also once a girl is aroused she can go almost indefinitely! The more a woman gets the more she will want!

    Just gently explain that its not that you dont fancy her, but that you have physical limitations!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 316 ✭✭clones1980


    Give her a nice mug of hot choc with a sleeping table half an hour before you hit the sack. That should do the trick.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 419 ✭✭wasper


    Ok some of you may see this as not so much of a problem, but need advice...

    Going over to visit a girl i meet a few times in a foreign country in a few weeks. Basically ive meet her twice now but talk to her every night on msn, am mad about her.

    thing is, shes mad in the sack...she just cant get enough. LAst time i was over, we'd come home about 1am and there would be no sleeping all night, she'd just keep comign back for more...hours and hours and then we'd get up and go out for the day. As great as this seems, theres only so much i can do!!
    The girl just doesnt sleep and keeps wanting more sex no matter what i do to her, i was a wreck by the end of it...and id be a young lad of 24 as horney as anyone other lad my age, but after 5 or 6 times in one night i start to lose intrest and want sleep....

    I tell her i need sleep and then she sulks, which is dam sexy normally, but at the time its not. Any tips or advice here on what to do or handle this?

    Its even one of the reasons ive started going the gym, to inprove my stamina! I know its a good problem, but its not really!!
    If I were you I would frame this for when you are 50 & manage it once a day. Remember the good old days.
    Seriously, you are there for just a Weekend so enjoy it as much as you can. Don't drink too much so you can pleasure her more & more.
    Lucky bugger.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 384 ✭✭qt9ukbg60ivjrn


    death by snoo snoo:D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I had a similar situation with a girl I was seeing for a while. Zero sleep and all nookie can make for a very cranky bugger after a few days I can tell you.

    The only thing I found able to help was to arrange for the first evening to be a quiet night in. Where we could spend some 'quality' time together. This meant we'd end up in bed a lot earlier and also meant that at least some sleep was gotten. My relationship didn't work out for other reasons. Best of luck in yours


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