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Whats She Playing at?

  • 09-03-2009 1:18pm
    #1
    Wasy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭


    I was meeting a girl for a couple of months but she was looking at getting serious so we split up cause i wasnt ready. We no longer text each other but in the last few weeks most weekends she would be in my local pub even though its 10 miles away from her and she told me herself she thinks its a kip. We don't really talk to each other but she talks to all the other boys and i think she's trying to make me jealous. I find it a bit strange cause i couldnt imagine myself doing something like that.


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  • #2
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Wasy wrote: »
    I was meeting a girl for a couple of months but she was looking at getting serious so we split up cause i wasnt ready. We no longer text each other but in the last few weeks most weekends she would be in my local pub even though its 10 miles away from her and she told me herself she thinks its a kip. We don't really talk to each other but she talks to all the other boys and i think she's trying to make me jealous. I find it a bit strange cause i couldnt imagine myself doing something like that.

    If she is indeed playing games like that and not moving on, then bullet dodged.

    It's amazing that people engage in this because it proves they haven't moved on and it's very unattractive, and more likely to put someone off than win them back.


  • #3
    STUBBORNGIRL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭STUBBORNGIRL


    is it working Op? are you jealous?? If you have no feelings for this girl then let her work away and flirt with every Tom Dick and HArry - i fail to see why this is bothering you if she means nothign to you, unless of course you have feelings for her.

    If you like her then have a chat with her and try and get back on track from where you left off - if not let her off to her own devices even if that means her coming to your neck of the woods and flirting with all the boys.


  • #4
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    who cares what she's playing at? The only game to worry about is the one you're playing dude, don't worry about her.


  • #5
    Wasy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭Wasy


    I suppose its not really jealously just hurtful really that she could try and rub my nose of in front of all my friends.


  • #6
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    man - she's going to do whatever she wants. If you don't care about her, she can't hurt you. Take it as a compliment really, you're obviously more important to her than she is to you. The thing about games is, if you refuse to play, the game fails :)


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  • #7
    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    Liam Byrne wrote: »
    If she is indeed playing games like that and not moving on, then bullet dodged.

    It's amazing that people engage in this because it proves they haven't moved on and it's very unattractive, and more likely to put someone off than win them back.

    very true, there is nothing more off putting.

    let them miss you


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