Inexperienced and nervous

LegacyUser

Hi there,
Usual 'im not experienced enough' thread.. My girlfriend and I are planning on having sex this weekend problem is that I havent done it before and guess what? She has..

Were both 20. My trouble is that i dont know really what to do..? Ive done loads of things with girls in the past just never the real thing, ive watched porn loads is it really just as simple as in the movies i.e. just in an out in out until climax..? Or is there a special technique i should know about?

Thanks!

The_Jabberwock

You've got the mechanics almost right, but just do what feels natural. It'll come to you. Does she know it's your first time?

Otis Driftwood

Porn is not a real life depiction of what sex is.Just take your time and talk to your GF.

LegacyUser

I popped my cherry only last week at 24! The girl I was with has plenty of experience having been in long term relationships since she was like 16. For so many years I avoided it because I thought I would be crap or wouldnt know what to do but when it came down to it I just did what came natural. I never told her it was my first time and dont know if she could tell but she seemed to enjoy it!

Just relax and to be honest you will wonder after what all the fuss was about.

cherrypicker555

Unsure989 wrote: »

Hi there,
Usual 'im not experienced enough' thread.. My girlfriend and I are planning on having sex this weekend problem is that I havent done it before and guess what? She has..

Were both 20. My trouble is that i dont know really what to do..? Ive done loads of things with girls in the past just never the real thing, ive watched porn loads is it really just as simple as in the movies i.e. just in an out in out until climax..? Or is there a special technique i should know about?

Thanks!

Yer there is a special technique called viagra load up on that, turn on the dvd player and chill.


First time is usually crap for most people.

Overheal

Viagra is for old men with erectile dysfunction :rolleyes:

OP it will come naturally to you. Instincts take over for your brain. Just let yourself go and have fun.

cherrypicker555

Overheal wrote: »

Viagra is for old men with erectile dysfunction :rolleyes:

OP it will come naturally to you. Instincts take over for your brain. Just let yourself go and have fun.

Viagra keeps you going all night and you and still drink and do other things

Unsure989

Unsure989 wrote: »

Hi there,
Usual 'im not experienced enough' thread.. My girlfriend and I are planning on having sex this weekend problem is that I havent done it before and guess what? She has..

Were both 20. My trouble is that i dont know really what to do..? Ive done loads of things with girls in the past just never the real thing, ive watched porn loads is it really just as simple as in the movies i.e. just in an out in out until climax..? Or is there a special technique i should know about?

Thanks!

Just tell her. She won't mind and should help you

good luck

BubbleWrap85

It's not like in porn, unless you've watched amateur porn. Just take your time. Slow and easy. It's not a case of wham bam thank you mam!! You could tell it's your first time. She may be delighted to think you've decided to sleep with her. She may be more patient and understanding. Or you may be less nervous if you don't tell her. It should be a pleasurable experience for both of you so spend lots of time on foreplay. This should help get rid of the nerves for the actual act itself. Remember your condoms

That_Guy

As a previous post mentioned, she might be flattered that you waited for someone special and that someone special being her.

Don't let it eat at you. It's not a big deal at all really. It's meant to be a pleasurable experience for both you so don't let nerves get at you. Might affect the performance.