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  • 02-03-2009 10:45pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok ive been texting this guy, and i know he is trying to bring the conversation more on the dirty side and i just dont know what im doing. Its not that i think its a bad thing, would love to be able to think of good responses to keep it going but i just get stuck and dont know what to say. Im worried about going to far or keeping it too tame...i know people will tell me to relax and just go with it, but i tend to over think everything and just need advice on how to stop that!


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  • #2
    towel401
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,917 ✭✭✭towel401


    just go see him in real life.

    this text- based stuff is pants

    edit: if you really want to go on with this stuff.. put on your wizard hat and google a good Howto for cybersex. its exactly the same thing, but with less bandwidth :) i think there was one on wiki after dark back in the day. dunno if there still is


  • #3
    Passenger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,150 ✭✭✭Passenger


    Ye don't want to allow this bloke to think your a bit of a dirty burd if you start using risque language in texts as it may lead him to think you're a little like this in real life.

    If it's only done in a humourous manner then fine but if he's serious then he may just be testing the water to gauge your promiscuity threshold.


  • #4
    milod
    Closed Accounts Posts: 757 ✭✭✭milod


    OP, boys text, men say what they mean. Tell him to relax the fingers and use the oral approach... :pac:


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I have seen him in person, problem is that we dont live in the same city,ive seen him a couple of times and the next time ill get to visit is next weekend. Its still early days, ie it is not a relationship and we talk on the phone normally and all but there are just these texts.
    I dont want to go down the route of hardcore dirty texts, but just lighthearted and flirty


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