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B/F's Bro

  • 02-03-2009 10:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I really thought we were happy. However his brother who up until recently has been travelling has just returned. I'd never met him before, but heard a lot about him. The problem is, the more time I spend in his company, the more feelings I develop for him. We just seemed to click straight away, and while I would obviously never do anything about this while I am with my boyfriend, I'm starting to wonder if it would be better for everyone if I finished my relationship, and if in the future it's meant to be,,, it's meant to be. At the moment I'm doing everything to avoid him, and my boyfriend's starting to wonder why, I don't want to spend time with him, because It makes me feel so disloyal, but I really can't help the way I feel, the worst thing is I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, although nothing has been said.
    Can anybody help me? What is the right thing to do? Should I continue to try and avoid him in the hope that it's just a passing crush, Or should I finish things with my boyfriend.. ... I still obviously have feelings for my OH, it's just all so confusing..


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Even if you broke up with your BF it would still be pretty horrible to start seeing his brother but even then I doubt his bro is going to have anything to do with you anyway.

    I Have brothers and I would never go out with one of their ex's at the end of the day these guys will be your brothers for the rest of your life no way a respectable man would risk that for you or any woman.


    If you dont fancy your BF anymore then end the relationship- dont go near his brother unless you want to open up a world of hurt


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