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No feeling sex

  • 02-03-2009 6:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Sorry Mod if this needs to be moved.
    I know this is a thread that's probably been posted quite a bit and it's not the worst thing that can happen but it gets me down because I really want to enjoy sex with my partner so I just need to hear a bit of advice.
    I've been sexually active for years and never once had an orgasm. I'm female btw.
    Is this typical? Please don't tell me I'm doing it wrong because there aren't many other ways I can try doing it! Is there anyone I can go to about this?
    Thanks.


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  • #2
    smileysurfer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,064 ✭✭✭smileysurfer


    Im going to go with the usual reliable response for this and ask if you masterbate? You need to know how to please yourself before someone else tries to :rolleyes:


  • #3
    Lollipops23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    i heard that 20% of women have orgasmed through penatrive sex. that means there's 80% who don't...
    even if that stat ain't spot on,there's certainly a lot of women who don't orgasm through sex alone. tried foreplay?


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    My girlfriend is the exact same as are a lot of women. Have you tried oral and hands (foreplay basically). My gf never had an orgasm until she met me but even now it rarely happens (only happened twice in 3 months. If you try receiving oral and getting your partner to use his hands also im sure you will. It could take a while though but relax into it. I think 9 times out of 10 its a mental block


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