Confusion with the GF

LegacyUser

So here it is I'll try keep it as short as possible not to bore you.

Been with the g/f a few weeks now, and I feel that there is a whole load of problems that I'm personally experiancing, she doesn't seem to be wanting me at times e.g. Went to town weekend just gone, arrive in and try contacting her, i hear nothing, I have no idea whats going on till I contact one of her friends who comes down too me, I go off with them and then see the g.f with other friends she doesn't come over to me or even say Hi, I go over and say Hi, but nothing in return so I go back over too one of the guys and by the time I turn around she's gone, I basically don't see her for the day till the end, I get a text saying "I'm at BT2, wanna come down and talk? "
I head down and she tells that she has been having problems with her bestfriend and she says Sorry about it, I go its alright I understand as some of the things said were pretty hurtfull too her. We then talk abit and go on.
Later I'm not texting her much as I am still annoyed with her and she's texting me and then rings me too see If I'm going to reply which I do, She seems to think that I'm angry the way she acts around other lads she's friends with and keeps saying If it's a problem to tell her, I respond with its not, as i knew what she was like when we got together.
Next day I head up to a friends house that shes also friends with and I'm barely geting acknowledged again, I try talk to her but I'm not geting anything out of her yet she can talk too everyone else with no bother. At the end of the day me and another lad walk off messing around about to come back and she's gone with 2 other girls who are bringing her home, she doesn't say bye or anything of the likes.
Her friends say that we really need to talk things out as It's kinda weird, I have actually never been out with her on my own and It is starting to annoy me slightly.
Am I being unreasonable to want to see her on my own?
I don't want to be clingy with her but the way she acts with other guys she doesn't with me and I don't mind but I don't understand why shes not like that with me!!
What do you guys suggest I tried to say it to her over msn but she just kept saying Sorry.
How do you think we should go from here, I don't wanna dump her over this but It feels really bad!
Help!

MagicMarker

She's not your girlfriend man, she's playing with you.

Retain your self respect and get rid of the bitch.

Yakult

If I had a gf like that I would show her the door straight away. You've been more than reasonable with her sso be the man and tell her where to go.

gubby

Or.. you could try talking to her. I mean, really talking. tell her how you feel.. how she makes you feel. Magic marker is right about one thing... she is not your girlfriend. you havent even been out with her so how could she be your girlfriend. just lack of commuciation I think. talk dammit.

That_Guy

That seems pretty unfair on your behalf. Of course you're not being unreasonable in wanting to spend some time alone seeing as she is your girlfriend.

It's only been a couple of weeks but I think you should move on and find someone new. She obviously doesn't appreciate you or want to be around you when she's with her friends. I'd be angry and confused about it too as it would seem to me that she feels maybe embarrassed to be with you.

It's not fair for her to be playing with you and talking to you whenever it suits her.

You're better off without her man.

bluecell99

She's not your girlfriend.Ditch her now and get back your self-respect.

Life is too short for this.Why put up with it?

LegacyUser

I understand what your saying but I do care for the girl so much I wanna fight for it, what do you think I should say to her to try sort it out.
I do wanna try work things out, I just don't know what to do!!!

Mr. Frost

She's not your girlfriend. What did you kiss once? It sounds like you've taken it that you're her boyfriend and you're going to act like one and she's clearly put off by this and therefore you.

Have some self respect and don't bother contacting her as she's clearly being a tool.

LegacyUser

Mr. Frost wrote: »

She's not your girlfriend. What did you kiss once? It sounds like you've taken it that you're her boyfriend and you're going to act like one and she's clearly put off by this and therefore you.

Have some self respect and don't bother contacting her as she's clearly being a tool.

Clearly I'm not that naive.

jim o doom

To be brutally honest ; if ANYONE - friend/girlfriend/family member/acquaintance/whatever decided I was unworthy of even being talked to when there were other people/mates around - I would entirely cut them out of my life. full bloody stop.

Mr. Frost

Unregistered wrote: »

Clearly I'm not that naive.

Clearly you are! She's making a fool of you, how can you not see that?! :rolleyes: I'm even surprised anyone would require advice on such an 'issue'.