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  • 02-03-2009 8:22am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone, just lookin for some opinions on what happened to me the other night. I have been seeing this girl for about a month and we were about to get intimate the other night. She asked me did i have a condom so i put it on. I tried to enter her 3 times when i was on top but could not get it in, that was fair enough that can happen im thinkin but then i let her on top twice and she still could not get it in and i was fully erect on each occasion.im just thinkin she didnt want to have sex as i have never experienced this in the past and it seemed strange. I was thinkin that it must be impossible with a girl on top not to be able to guide you in properly?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    was she fully aroused? don't mean to be crude in my description but its sometimes difficult to get in if she is "dry"!!


  • #3
    Das Kitty
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Did ye use lube?

    If it's a new thing, sounds like a dryness issue.


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Have ye slept together before? If not, it could be partial nerves / not aroused enough (her) and not relaxed enough. The first time with someone can be very new and a bit nervous, and if things weren't working quite well then it only causes more tension out of nerves/embarrassment.
    Next time, take things really slow, make sure ye are both very relaxed and comfortable. You don't have to go for penetrative sex straight away, you can just explore each other and pleasure in other ways, and if ye are both relaxed enough after that then you can try. But don't let it worry either of you.


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