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knowing its over but not wanting it to be

  • 23-02-2009 1:54am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi all

    Been seeing someone for a few weeks and have been having a good time.

    Things just seemed to fizzle out on their side over the last week and even though its not been said "officially", i know deep down that its what they are thinking. i don't want to talk about it cause i don't want to loose them but i think i have lost them already so. haven't seen each other for a few days and the calls and texts have not been flowing as much.

    obviously, its not a good sign so am trying to figure a way that i get prepared to over this. he is just a great guy and i hate the thought of it not working out. I know we should just talk but deep down knowing that its over its a conversation i don't know if I'm ready to have....


Comments

  • #2
    themadchef
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,813 ✭✭✭themadchef


    If you had said "a couple of years" i could understand, but a couple of weeks? Come on girl (feels like doing the black sister snap your fingers from side to side move :D) He's not that into you..corny phrase, but... if he was your phone would be ringing.


    You don't need to wreck your head like this. You can't make him want to be with you. Chin up, pull your confidence out of the gutter and go find a man who deserves you and treats well.


  • #3
    MIN2511
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    Hmm funny thing it i was only thinking the same this morning about a fella, ah well it's over... leave it... move on





    *said this to myself 20 times in the last 24hrs!*


  • #4
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    In fairness it has only been a few weeks so you shouldnt be "that" attached. I dont mean to be harsh but if he was into you then he would be still in contact.

    Mark it down to experience and let it go. I'm sure there's a better guy out there for you who wont go cold all of a sudden.


  • #5
    Princessa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 581 ✭✭✭Princessa


    Move on, hopefully the next guy will be more into it than this one. Write it off as another male life experience. :D


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    am in similar position except that i have been friends with this girl for a few years and we decided to go with feelings we were both having. she has not said it in so much words but I'd be lying if I said that I didnt know that it has fizzled out.Not on my side as think she is just a great girl. Its harder when there is a friend ship there - do you break all ties or just try and go back to friends again?


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