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Asking Particular Lady Out

  • 20-02-2009 4:49pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys. You've all helped me before with PIs and as such I'm looking for your helpful advice in trying to move on from a very difficult break up.

    I can't say I've had much of an interest in people since the OH left me, however; there's this one particular woman that works in a hair dressers in my own hometown. She's gorgeous; and openly admits she doesn't do the pub/club scene and has hobbies that really intrigue me.

    Now. Sure; she could be with someone already or be a lesbian. And truth of the matter is that although we have good conversations I'm sure she has them with all of the people who get their hair cut.

    Question is, though. How do I find the opportunity to ask this girl out? How do I get the opportunity to even get information out of her that might be a little too personal?

    I'd rather not sit in the car and stalk the place until she finishes..that's a little OTT..but is there any way I can get to know this girl better outside of getting my hair cut once a fortnight?

    Thanks in advance!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    maybe try jokingly, saying that you are so happy with your haircut that you would like to invite her out for coffee. It sounds less formal/serious than asking out for date and you're more likely to succeed. You will have a chance for a little talk. If she refuses she will probably give you a reason like: i have a bf or i'm not interested, so you will know where you stand.

    GL


  • #3
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Hi,

    I am mainly just replying to this because I have noticed that it has slipped back to the second page on this (PI) forum. However, I might as well offer what little advice I can too:

    The 'getting of the information out of her part' should be done when you and her actually arrange a date with each other. I assume that she sometimes cuts your hair, right? The next time that this happens, try to focus on her (but not excessively) and, then, when she has nearly finished cutting your hair, tell her that you'd like to learn more about her interests and/or her. If she seems receptive to the idea, that is when you arrange a date/time to meet.

    I'm 25 years old but I already know not to let things like this slip by. having had a crush on a girl for 13 years and doing nothing about it, you can understand why.

    Take care
    Kevin


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