High sex drive???

LegacyUser

this might be a bit "Strange" but im a 28 year old woman and havn't had sex in about 3 months. anyway lately i have being thinking about it alot - it has got so bad i seem to be having thoughts of a guy in work that must be 40!! and has grey hair!!!! why am i like this? do other people have thoughts like this!!!!!

Mr. Incognito

Go to a bar and get laid- what's the issue here?

Wibbs

Hey don't knock 40 with a few grey hairs;) . Yes it's natural. You're a sexual woman with sexual needs as part of a healthy libido and life. You're not getting any at the minute so your libido is keeping in practice with fantasy. Nothing wrong at all.

LegacyUser

Ha! welcome to my world. I think about sex all day long!

Its only getting worse now that Spring has sprung and the sap is rising!

From to the fella who just came in to fix the roof tiles in work to men on the TV....men men everywhere! tushes, bums, chests, arms, you name it everywhere, just now I've been slyly Googling wrestlers even! Help me!

And I have a boyfriend who keeps me happy in the sack!

I think its normal OP!

Serafina27

Go on the pill. Its a great way to kill the buzz between partners!!

shellyboo

Unregistered wrote: »

this might be a bit "Strange" but im a 28 year old woman and havn't had sex in about 3 months. anyway lately i have being thinking about it alot - it has got so bad i seem to be having thoughts of a guy in work that must be 40!! and has grey hair!!!! why am i like this? do other people have thoughts like this!!!!!

Why are you like this? You're a human being.

Do other people have thoughts like this? Yes. I'm having one right now! :pac:

OP, maybe you're not the type to have sex outside of a relationship, but you really should in this case. It's excellent fun, and there's no harm in it. And it'll give you something to fantasise about other than the 40 year old in the office :P

(Also, grey hair is hot).

Carpaydiem

Everyone has random sexy thoughts about people they they maybe shouldn't, or rather would not have done before when the going gets tough.

You need to get out and satisfy the need, or you'll find yourself thinking even more drastic thoughts soon!

Wibbs

Serafina27 Unhelpful posts are not welcome. Please read the charter of this forum.

Serafina27

Very sorry about my remark as I believe it reads badly!!

I was meaning to say that I know where your coming from! When you are single you think about it an awful lot and it gets worse! Its normal of course but your imagination can go off on one.
As an observation I notice that the contraceptive pill helped "calm" the fires somewhat. Just an observation!

LegacyUser

the thing is i could have had a one nigher with a guy i met sat night but i was with my friends and i didn't want them thinking i was "easy" although they did it lots of times b4. maybe i have too high standards for myself. geez i gota do sumit or il be acting out my fantasies with the grey haired guy!!! haha.

Leslie91

Where can I meet yee women!?....

Seriously though, I would imagine it is perfectly normal. Lucky man who meets you guys.

fits

Dont be writing off the 40 year olds with grey hair!

I'm in a similar position op. Its not unusual. We all have needs.

metamorphic

I'm eyeing up the cleaning lady as we speak!!

so yeah, it's normal enough.

Dudess

Unregistered wrote: »

this might be a bit "Strange" but im a 28 year old woman and havn't had sex in about 3 months. anyway lately i have being thinking about it alot - it has got so bad i seem to be having thoughts of a guy in work that must be 40!! and has grey hair!!!! why am i like this? do other people have thoughts like this!!!!!

I can't understand why you see it as strange - it makes perfect sense. You haven't had sex in a while, now you're dying for some. Surely that's logical?

What's strange is thinking about sex all the time yet...

Unregistered wrote: »

I have a boyfriend who keeps me happy in the sack!

That would be me also...

ronbyrne2005

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Queencake

Ah nothing to feel weird about. I get like that when I haven't had sex in a while and I don't consider myself weird! I can't imagine being any different. I wouldn't like to have a lower sex drive tbh.

So long as the horniness isn't getting you down, no problem!

Dudess

Queencake wrote: »

I wouldn't like to have a lower sex drive tbh.

Yep, that's something that would bother me far more...

LegacyUser

Perfectly normal, OP. I think this thread is proof that women think about sex just as much as (if not more than!!) guys - and it's absolutely fine! My OH has been away for about 10 days and, ahem, let's just say I can't to have him back

Wibbs

ronbyrne2005 another unhelpful post and it's an infraction. Thanks.